Thanks guys , appreciate it.

She is a really nice girl and she cries every day for what she did
Today she did something very romantic , i'm still thinking of it.
She's really trying hard to get me back
you're right

Btw i was in control of the relationship , she never was in control.
And my attraction is really high , girls are texting me crazy all day and she knows that.
She told me during the relationship how lucky she was to have me because a lot of girls in our town are attracted to me, lol.

I know there is a difference between attraction and love so
I think i'm going to forgive her soon.

Any suggestions ?

From someone here? I don't believe that, unless you know of a thread that proves it. I don't think anyone here would condone cheating, unless they have just joined. Usually those people don't last long, as they come to realize we all aren't here to "bang as many bitches as possible".

If it was the other way around, she would feel the same way he does. She may even blame him more for all I know, I'm not in the relationship. And, of course, it would further most women's belief that men always cheat.

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man only in the beginning and she cheated, roll out on that bitch, shes worthless

Personally i have no tolerance for cheating...let her get tempted..let her flirt her heart out, but the second that physical line is crossed...no go

It will wreck your mind, when the whole trust thing goes out the window....its your decision, If you really want to be with her then perhaps enjoy it for what it is...In the long term i beleive it will always play on your mind

Today it's been a week that i dumped her.
But i had like 70 loveletters , and she keeps telling me she loves me and will keep continue fighting for me.

I'm pretty sure she's sorry and that she loves me
because otherwise she would have gone to that other guy because he really likes her.

I'm still thinking of my answer
Just wanted you guys to up-to-date

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I think you should take her back mate... Listen, she knows she screwed up and she knows that if she does anything stupid like that again - she will lose you for ever!

As it has been mentioned before by somebody (?): Don't let people in this forum make your decision. We're here for advice only. If you truly love her and haven't lost all your feelings for her, follow your instincts and take the poor girl back.

Hope I don't get attacked by everybody else now.

haha , thanks , I think i'm going to forgive her
I know it's my decision but i wanted to know all of your advices.
Hahaha , i know what you mean

Been in this situation before and yet its very tempting but not worth it. Just like every guy says her.. once a cheater always a cheater no matter how much she likes you some girls just like to see what they can get away with. i had a girl that did this and when i forgave her she knew in her mind if she was gonna do it again she would never let me find out like how she slipped the last time. If you truly believe its a good decision to take her back then go for it but im pretty sure we will be saying we told you so!

one fucked up situation dude,

dump the hoe!!

Not gonna say much more. Just telling you: I stick to my piece of advice. You only live once so what the fuck man, go for it! Take her back.

kind of makes me laugh, you knew what you were going to do before you asked the question, you were just waiting for the answer you wanted to hear.

Good luck I hope it works out

I think that is mostly the case. Deep down our primal instinct knows exactly what to do. Just through crappy experiences in life we become afraid of acting in the moment.

It's been a month and 2 weeks or more..
She's still begging for me like crazy
I got like 15 love letters and she texts me everyday atleas 10 times that she loves me and misses me and begs me to take her back.
She tries to avoid any communication with men.


And the strange thing is that I act like an asshole towards her and she knows i'm having a lot of female attention and that i kiss a lot of other girls and she keeps fighting for me.
I'm pretty sure she loves me for real and isn't going to do it again.
so i'm going to take her back.

Just wanted you guys to know

I had a similiar thing with one of my ex. But we only went out for 1 month and she broke with me because a guy told her he loves her that same day( I know...it's like WTF!!!!!!! ) but I don't know why she went for him. The day after she brokes with me she went back to tell me that she still loves me and wants me back. I told her to fuck off but she called me for the next month (it was in december) and invited me for christmas and all. But well...you have to do what you have to do. I have my pride.

It's only been 2 months in your case, it will be easy to get over it. Seriously, I don't understand guys who get cheated on and still go out with that girl. Be a man, step up. I am not a PUA, but you don't have to be one to understand that. How can you trust someone that already cheated on you? Maybe she didn't, but you can never know...sorry to tell you but it's pretty easy to dodge a kiss.

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IAN i know how u feel. I've been thru that exact same story and i did what you already did or are plannning to do idk how long ago u posted this. however, what happened was i gave in and forgave her. Two months after, she got bored of the relationship and i got dumped. It made me feel even worse cause i gave her a chance but it she never did that for myself. Just letting ya know what u might see in the future. :)however, every experience you get out of this will help you out in the long run. peace bro