My chick has had a fuck load of guys.
She has always been the chick that walked in to the club and wore that skirt that was way to high with the shirt that was way too low.

All the guys wanted her and all the girls hated her.

I don't really care. I'd rather had a woman that has been out and knows what she wants than a chick that is too naive and has not explored herself yet.

And still, with all the other chicks I've had, she is the best out of all of them.

Plus we are close like home boys.
She points out guys she would like to give the pipe too the same way I point out chicks I'd like to get at.

We then laugh about it when we don't see what each other finds in these people.

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I've been dealing with this myself. I'm her 22nd shes my 15th. She's been in threesomes and I even know that she fucked 14 guys in 1 year. Its tough to deal with at first but I think its immaturity on my part this is the first LTR that's lasted longer than 3 months (almost 2 years now actually). And yeah sometimes it eats away at me. Start asking yourself why the fuck did she need to do that. And thats when you realize that shes her own person, she did things for her own reason and its really none of my fucking business.

The best I can do right now is tell myself when this was happening she didn't even know I existed, she didn't do this to spite me she did this because she had no idea that I was out there. She is fucking hot and everybody wants a piece of it. I know she cares about it and I know shes not cheating on me. As far as all the other guys are concerned I'm the one thats fucking her today and I'll be the one thats fucking her tomorrow. So at this point I can either man up and be mature about it (ie dont think about because its really none of my business) or break up with her and let a bunch of other guys have all the fun.

No, they don't.

The "most confident men" aren't plagued by unhealthy insecurities programmed by society's sexually repressive standards.

wow who would have thought that Bob Marley could have so much insight!..Beautiful Quote.

Ive made the mistake of asking this question before. It wasnt an issue untill a girl i was seeing said close to 80 and she was 19. And no she wasnt lieing, very very bad upbringing , no father and so on. All of a sudden my respect for her changed, here i was presented with this amazing girl, a 10 and i let immaturity and past history better me. People grow, people learn and people better themselves.

As my current GF put it to me, "What does it matter who i have been with and what i have done? I am here now with you because i chose you"

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And yes, it pisses me the fuck off!

To each their own. I dont think a girl who has not had alot of sex is naive...In fact most of the sluty women I know are the naive ones who usually have some sort of issue in their life or problem they are dealing with...this of course is not always the case but often sluty women come from fucked up homes, have image problems, or some other issue.

Honestly I think it all depends on the person...I want somone who thinks like I do (I like to think I have a high moral standing) and so I want a women who is the same...Like wise somone (a guy) who has had 100 partners prob doesnt care If his gf has slept with 60 guys because he lives the same life style.

Insecurity, that's all this is about. Not once do you guys seem to be thinking about what they must think of all the other girls you've been with.

I expect girls to have had plenty of guys before me. I like innocence as much as anyone but realistically you want an adult who knows what they're doing and can move forward maturely in a relationship because of their experience.

my last girlfriend never told me how many guys she'd been with, but she did mention she had a fiance earlier, and so she had a hard time committing after that, but I broke that habit . But she did tell me that she got played by a PUA once... She's read the game, (the one that introduced it to me, actually), and she said she had the cube run on her, and she fell for it, and hooked up with the guy. After she read the game, she literally stood up and said "Son-of-a-bitch...." (her roommate confirmed it) lol. But she doesn't feel too bad about it, after all, if she really didn't like him/think he was cute, she wouldn't have done it. Now her eyes are open though, lol. There would be times we would go out and pick out and critique all the guys trying to pick up.

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Most of the people on this post has pretty much explained wat to do (Kudos to all those where due) but I know exactly wat u mean. Just think of yourself as the MAN, you’re the one she is with now, none of the guys she has been with before you doesn’t even match up to u in any shape or form, you’re the best for her and no one before you can even match up to your superiority - Tell yourself this and always think along these lines (whether u use affirmations or whatever).
Story wise I know this girl who has slept with 203 guys in 11 years (now that is alot). I respect her for just being straight up as most girls like to beat around the bush, which makes Ur NATURAL curiosity to know how many previous sex partners she has go up and down the radar. The only thing is if u walk around with her she would be one of those girls that EVERY man can say they’ve been with which is not wat any man wants. A man desires "Exclusivity" so obviously the less people she has slept with the more exclusive she is to you.
Also it’s not good when you get with girls that have slept with the same reoccurring guy (for those who live in areas where everyone tends to know each other).

At the end of the day it unless she's caught some nasty STD's it doesn't matter at all, to be honest it works in your favor the more guys she's fucked the more experienced she is. Ever fucked a virgin? seriously I wanted to fuck a virgin so bad and now I finally did I don't want to do it again! also so what if she has fucked 50 guys she is your gf now probably less likely to go fuck some other guy behind your back than a girl who hasn't had much sex in her life and wants to experience a range of guys. And to anyone who says she is a slut thats alot of shit, we fuck bitches all the time why can't they do the same?

Wouldn't it be great if we lived in a world where girls thought being a slut was a good natural thing to do? Think about how much easier it would be to get laid!
I say we encourage this slutty behavior! and not make it seem like a bad dirty thing like their parents have brainwashed them to believe it is!

Yes, it is very rare you find a girl comfortable enough with herself that she is actually very much passionate and enjoying her sexuality, and can have the personal strength to be open about it. It really infuriates me to hear about some people bad mouthing them behind their backs - to me it smacks of jealousy.

Just wondering what specifically bothers everyone about knowing their gf's number?

My girlfriend and I are both very open and we know how many people each other has been with and of course it bothers me but I can't put a finger on exactly why.

Some people feel that if she's been with a ton of guys, she might have an STD. At least thats what I've always thought, lol. But seriously, its not a huge deal. Ideally, the lower for her, the better, but I guess the more she's been with, the more experience she has, lol.

I wouldn't care, as long as she's clean.

Same.

If it's a low number, then she's a little innocent thing If it's a high number then she's a mature experienced girl who knows how to have a good time Both are good.