Many people have problems with their relationships. They do a good pickup, maybe even have sex but where to go from there?

The thing is, you cannot keep doing the same thing you do when you are in day 1 when you are in fact in day 2 or 3 or 4 etc etc.

People learn the cocky funny stuff, they learn the negs, they learn how to be hard to get. Guess what, it does not fit in the later stages of pickup. Initially, yes, you need to use these things, mainly because you wanna build attraction. Unfortunately, as soon as you have got the number and built comfort, you are in the sweduction phase. It is completely different. If you have a girl interested you cannot keep doing the cool guy stuff. Eventually you need to show your raw masculine side. You gotta take action, a girl can only wait so long. Attraction needs to be used fresh. If you dont step it up she will lose interest. She will think, that, ok he is a good guy, cool but there is nothing more to it. You dont wanna end up there because it leads to the LJBF zone.
My experience: 90% of the girls wanna get dominated, or at least have a dominant male, thats Alpha male for you.

So if you get a day 2 or even more, you gotta go caveman, you gotta show life, action, fun, otherwise all your work have been lost.

Ezo

what made u decide to post this here lol?

I know exactly wat ur saying most of this stuff should be used to "attract" a girl sort of like putting bait onto a hook when going fishing. Once youve got the bait within ur grasp its down to you to make the next call. If you dont "secure" this bait firmly it can quite easily wiggle out of ur grasp and ur back to stage 1 again.

I think the bigest problem with most us guys who are in relationships is that when we get comfortable we stop looking for her tests, we stop pushing and only pull and we just become slaves to our gfs.

The key is to pick up on your gf's tests and calibrate with her accordingly...be honest how many of you have had your gf get mad at you for somthing completely ridiculous and rather then pushing her you pullled her in only to make it worse? I think the bigest thing is not leting your gf take advantage of you...I have been guilty of this in the past but have realized that you cant reward your gf for bad behaviour or it will continue to happen. Honestly guys If your gf is being mean then dont hang out with her...make other plans and just kinda ignore her...it makes sens why would you want to be around a women who doesnt appreciate you?

The reason for posting it here is that some guys think that just because they are in a relationship they can just relax and enjoy the ride. Or they keep doing the things that got them the girl, push pull, being distant etc. But in fact she is checking your other qualities now, show that you have them too.

I agree with both replys that letting a relationship become to routine is a big fail for maintaining a healthy relationship, but the thing that should be focused on is more natural game from that point onwards. As Ezo said guys need to emphasise their other traits - traits which make them who they are. Because so much focus for this is on actually getting the girl alot of momentum is lost on what to do with the girl after uve won them over and this is an area that should be developed further by alot of PUA enthusiasts.