Recently while playing a drinking game that had a truth or dare element, I was asked by the girl I was targeting, "how many girls have you fucked?"

It was in the company of two gay guys, HB's friend, and one other straight guy who was going for the friend.

I hesitated, blushed, and went with "7." The real number is about 15, but I wasn't sure what she wanted to hear.

She said, "Oh, that's a little low."

I said, "Quality over quantity."

It passed and I think I salvaged it the best I could. But definitely be prepared to answer this question because it will come up if you're being a fun guy and meeting girls left and right.

What do you guys think is the most money answer? 15-20, or saying "I don't kiss and tell" or what? Or just being confident and answering, provided it's high enough.

Ah I used to hate this question, now I love it.

My standard answer is to pretend I'm counting like with my fingers, then when I get to 10 I go "Shit! I'm out of fingers!" they usually laugh. They might then try to force out an answer to which i respond, "Dunno more than 10 anyway, i only keep track of important stuff"

I've used differnt replies to this, but usually gross exageration in some way:

How many girls have I fucked? I've never even held a girls hand!

or

5,943,897.5, when they ask about the half, say "I fucked a midget" or something like that. I found "You're halfway there" isn't a good answer.

i hardly prefer Alpha lions answer;P but also a good way to start an answer is just asking with a surprised face "today?" there will propably laugh and you can continue like "i stopped counting. definitly enough." this answer depends hardly on the situation, so you have to see.


sorry for wrong english, i'm german, my english sux;P

Ooh strike that's great natural game if you can pull that line out. I'll keep that tucked away in case it ever comes up again.

Well since this was a game of Truth or Dare you really didn't have a choice to avoid answering. But if you were asking how I avoid the answer in the field, well I just say..

"I don't ask, and I don't tell." and leave it at that. If they get whinny about it I neg them about about it.

I wouldn't worry about it. If she is really rating you on how many times you've had sex, that's pretty pathetic. She was probably just joking by saying that it's low. Don't qualify to her.

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So the rule here is always lie?
The last girl who asked I gave the honest answer and she did not mind at all hearing she would be a round number.
She just replied "Oh, I guess you'll remember me then".

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No the rule is to deflect. Don't answer a loaded question. It's a shit test and there is no right answer so just avoid it.

You can always make a joke out if it as most of the guys here suggested. I believe that if she is into you she wouldn’t like to hear the answer (whatever it is, there is no too many or too less). The problem in general is that people like to ask questions but they aren’t really ready to hear the answer.
From my perspective... I’ve tried giving the real number, then I decided that maybe it isn’t a good idea cos whatever I say (even if is under 10) guys are never happy to hear that they aren’t the ‘special one’. Eventho we all know that at a certain age it won’t be realistic to be the first of someone, we don’t really wanna know how many have been there before us. Or am I wrong? The whole thing reminds me of the question ‘So tell me about ur ex?’ … that question has to be forbidden or smth… never ever leads to a good thing. People just don’t wanna know for ur pervious experience. Basic psychology, we all like to feel special. So if you wanna be honest the next time, just tell her smth like ‘ There have been others, but I don’t live in the past ‘.

Cheers
Jez

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Excellent C&F. I think adding strimpboi's xxx.5 and maybe altering "I fucked a midget" to something like, "I met a midget, once, on a fiery night at the coast," with a good smile would kill.

If they press beyond that, I'd go with "don't ask, don't tell" policy.

How about "Ask me in the morning." ?!

Haha, funny, but you'd have to pull that one off just right. I can see a lot of girls freezing you out over that. Sober girls, anyway.

lmao i love the ask me tomorrow one.

but i would end up telling her im a virgin and have no idea what to do with my dick

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