Isolation Transition: (Smart girls will get what you are saying)

You: Do you like talking to guys in larger settings like living rooms and open spaces, or do you like talking to guys in smaller settings like cars and bedrooms?

Her: That’s a really interesting question! I guess I’d say smaller settings because I like keeping things private.
You: I’m the same way. I just want to know.

Or Her: Wow! That’s a neat question! I think I’d say larger settings because I can have more variety.
You: Well that’s too bad then.


You just "told" her that you wanted to go to a room where it's more "private".

Okay last week I field tested this one in a little different sitch, we were already next to each other but crammed into a booth at this small bar. Anyway, I tried this one, and since I couldn't really isolate her because we were blocked in, I just tried it conversationally. It took her over two minutes to answer this question--but not because she was a loquacious person, on contrary she was reserved, but it made her think and feel at the same time. If not for isolation, conversationally she should find you very interesting.