I was in a relationship for almost 2 months and everything was going great.
Until yesterday , she told me that her best friend kissed her !

She told me that she couldn't pull away or avoid the kiss when he wanted to kiss her becauze he grabbed her head and quickly kissed her.
There was no tongue and it took like 2 seconds.
She was shocked when it happend , she didn't knew what was happening because it happend so fast and immediately left the situation ( Atleast that's what she's been saying, dunno if it's true ).

& this is the biggest problem ,I don't know if she's telling the truth or just telling this so I would forgive her.
i just don't know.

When she told me about it , she was crying , begging for another chance , telling me that she didn't want it and it happend so fast etc...
I believe her that she feels really bad about it ,
but i'm not sure of the idea that she "couldn't pull away or avoid the kiss".
It feels like she disrespected me and took advantage of my trust.

I broke up with her and some people are telling me to give her another chance , while other people say : "she cheated on you , don't take her back".


Should I take her back or not ???


Eitherway i'm going to kick this guy's ass :p !

Grtz

Its not the guys fault. If you "kick his ass" youre playing the game that SHE set up..

Do what you want to do. Take her back, than lose respect, get cheated again, and laughed at.

Find yourself another girl.

O and about him kissing her, why did she put herself in a situation where he can kiss her.

Women will never accept responsibility for anything. ANYTHING.

Never believe what woman says, only observe what she DOES.

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I have to agree. Ok think about this...there had to be somthing that led up to this kiss...I mean I dout he just grabed her and kissed her plus 2 seconds is enouph time to pull away and Im not sure about your self or your gf? but I have the ability to turn my head and avoid a 2 second kiss lol

I wouldnt trust her word...I know you prob really like her but she shouldnt have put her self in that situation and I would deff end it and let her know you are upset by it! dont be a dick just tell her how you really feel with out being afc...remeber your not the one who did any thing wrong and although she might try to make you look like the bad guy she fucked up not you.

Act like you don't care. Get on with it she wil be like huh he doesn't care ? OMG i must try harder!!

I agree just act like she lost the best thing she every had not you...and move on like you can get any other women because you can. she fucked up her loss and if she wants you back she better beg!

Yeah I definitely wouldn't kick the guys ass. It wouldn't make the pain go away or anything. What I would do is punish the girl for it. Show her that its not okay for her to do crap like this wether or not it was her fault.

Make it look like she's indifferent to you. Get a second girlfriend for a week or two

She doesn't matter. Get another girlfriend. Punish her. Then have her give you a blow job. as to something leading up to the kiss..

How many girls have you stolen? Something led up to the kiss but it's obvious that no matter what the guy did you were more important to her. When you date someone does that mean that you sexually/socially isolate yourself?

Is anyone else seeing that there's a possibility this other guy just made a move? Isn't that what any of you would have done if you wanted a girl?

Also, you can't jump to conclusions about a situation with only having heard HER side of the story. For instance; talk to the guy and see what he says about what happened. If he tells you that he just kissed her out of no where, then it WASN'T her fault, and there'd be nothing wrong with taking her back.

P.S. Don't tell her your going to ask him about this, for the possibility of her getting him to lie.

I dunno , this situation sucks.

Our best mutual friends are saying that she's feeling really bad about what happend & that the things the other guy is saying aren't true.
She told me i'm the best thing in her life and she'll do whatever to take me back.

Btw the other guy is saying that she kissed him.
And now she admitted to me that she didn't pulled away immediately when he kissed her because he was her ex but has no feelings at all for him anymore


I'm really confused now

Oh and she told me that the reason for being alone with him was , that she was with her girlfriends and they had to go the the bathroom while she waited for them.
Then she saw him and it happend.
After "the kiss" she saw her friends and got back to them.

She swore on her mom , dad , little sister and her grandma that if she knew that the guy would do that she never would have went to him.

Hope that helps to get me out of this shit ;p

You have this girl in the palm of your hand over a fucking kiss. I'd say she probably deserves a second chance. Oh yeah, and by the way, she really likes you. Maybe it's time to use this leverage to your advantage? SHIT!

1. tell her you want to see her ("WE NEED TO TALK" -- make that shit serious.)
2. meet somewhere private
3. hear her bullshit out.
4. stop listening to her.
5. eye contact to the power of 42
6. F-CLOSE RIGHT THERE, I DONT GIVE A SHIT IF ITS IN A PARK, it will be amazing.
7. drop her (optional)

Lol, it's just a stupid kiss. Not even a make-out and it was not on purpose. You CAN be kissed when not seeing it coming. Get over those insecurities, people do mistakes. There is not like she has initiated sex or a long make-up sections either.

Edit: That might come off a bit harsh, what I mean is that she is probably terribly sorry for a thing like that happening. Don't ruin something great because of that:)

- Exerio

thanks Exerio
appreciate it.

But everyone else on this forum thinks i should dump her.
Although i think you are right , it was a stupid kiss and it also happend to me that 2 girls kissed without me even seeing it coming ( that was before i knew her ofcourse ;p )

Most people on this forum are social robots, heh. They can give you advice on how to pick up girls, but they really can't help you with feelings. You have to do what you feel for, and if you like that girl. Then why the hell do you care about what we are saying?:)

Yeah , i'm going to find out what really happend and if that guy really kissed her and she didn't want it i'll forgive her.
& because i don't know if she's speaking the truth or lying to get me back