Ok, I have been mentally fcking myself past two weeks and today I made an attempt to n-close a HB10. I was in my class and I sat next to a HB10. She played alot with her hairtips so I thought that that's maybe an IOI, she was also relly friendly and stuff. So I started playing her the elephant routine game (I draw and wierd animal and she draws something more to it and I tease her on those stuff).

I did get her laughting and stuff but the end just wasn't that good anymore. When I wanted to n-close her she didn't want to give me her nr or even e-mail :S. She was willing to give me her name finally (she didn't want to give even that to me at the beginning).
I guess it had something to do the fact that she thought that I wasn't suppoused to be in that class and she even asked me after I wanted her e-mail that what am I even doing here. I told her that I wanted to study that thing and it interested me and it's not my main speciality but a second. Then she kinda like..thought for a second or doubted or I don't know..anywas I said her goodby.

So my first REAL rejection where I didn't got even an e-mail. Actually, the only bad parts were when she didn't want to give me her nr OR name OR msn. Like, she had the power from then on.

I guess my mistakes were that I didn't say why I was in the class at the beginning, I raised the buying temperature but no compliance=no attraction and no comfort whats so ever. So..I have to think out a way how to make those points ticked during a class and at the same time compete with the teacher for attention/time.

Question: How can I tick those points during one class? So I would get a n-close?

When I hear someone has done a routine, and it gets attention, but is immediately followed up by questions that require you to qualify yourself, it tells me that your routine, however entertaining it may have been, came off as a routine.

And if you don't give dismissive responses to those questions, and instead engage them head on in a way that shows you're qualifying yourself, it shows you're not confident about being there, or what you're doing, and so she loses faith in you. She doesn't hate you, it's not the end, she's just not willing to take a chance with you yet.

If you were not scared, you might have responded something like "...um, same as everyone else? To learn Accounting, right? What are YOU doing here?" you know, but depends on the moment of course.

Hell even if you weren't supposed to be there you can still pull that off. Watch "Catch me if you can" It's all about confidence.

Rejections happen, shake it off, it's how you grow up..

You are giving this bitch waaay toomuch attention, you should never really ask her for name number or msn, thats how you come off as desperate.

Have her tell you and beg for yours instead

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Asking for a number, or ESPECIALLY her name doesn't make him desperate. Its called trying to get to know her and then wanting her number to possibly get a day 2, and so forth.

Just because a girl is playing with her hair and being friendly to you does NOT mean its an IOI. Girls play with their hair for various reasons. She may be playing with it because she was bored or was thinking about something. And the majority of girls are going to be nice/friendly to you when you talk to them. You need to look for more indicators before you think she is into. Look for her leaning forward when she talks to you. And things like her adjusting her clothing (which tends to have the biggest indicator that a girl is into you).
She may have found what you said semi funny. But I bet more than likely she was doing a polite laugh. Also you seem to be going for comfort and not attraction.

She doubted your reason for being in the class due to how you delivered your answer. And more than likely thought you where a player.
Your mistake was that you open with a routine that I bet she saw straight thru and then some. You should have open her with the class you are taking instead. You both have an interest in the class so you both have something in common. As well as something to use to build attraction.

The wierdest thing EVER happend...SHE took contact with me on the Facebook. Like..she had remembered my name (I never told her my name, she only saw it on the paper where we had to write down our names) and wrote me about the picture we had drawn (she kept the funny frame up).

I had never in a BILLION years thought that she would take contact to me.

Sounds like you made a good impression on her. Hopefully you can reach your goal with her what ever it is.