Alright, I am going to use details and timelines because this isnt an opportunity that comes up often.

About a week ago I met this 10. I was sitting on my porch and she was being consoled by her guy friend. I don't know why. I knew him so when they walked out of my house I said Hi and introduced myself to her complimented her dress but not her. She seemed curious and mentioned she was here earlier at our wet and wild day ( I live in a Fraternity house). She is around a bit and at another occasion caught her glancing at me most the night before she left and she called me over to play flip cup. Didn't see her or make contact for a few days after that and I added her on facebook. She commented me and had a back and forth, facebook chat. She saw me this weekend and I acted like I didn't see her bullshitted with my buddy. She snuck up behind me and punched me in the arm I turned gave her a hug and she had to leave with her friends. She made fun of me last week and this weekend about not tailgating our football games (it was playful negging and hinting that she was disappointed in not seeing me). She initiated conversation online a few times and after a few times I initiated. I'll be seeing her this weekend and most conversation is her joking around with me or me negging her.

I am just wondering if I have something or am I just wishful thinking, I guess only I can know that but... I am looking for any advice possible. Shes a cool chick and a 10 so its a jackpot. I am carrying out what i can I think I am past the attract phase and basically midway to almost done comfort building since shes approaching me, playful teasing, playful punching,etc. Until I get some good advice I' going to keep letting her initiating and being a mild douche. Read the game, did some research, reading the mystery method, I await your guys advice.

I would advice you to just escalate and see how it goes. Worst case scenario is her not being interested, and then you don't loose anything anyways.

- Exerio

in what sense? i have mild kino work done but should i work for more sexually suggestive kino or just comfort kino then grab her number? i am thinking about freezing her out until the weekend cause I know ill see her drunk as shit at our tailgate and it might help get the number and date. the game im used to working is opening and a lil mid game im not at the point where i can comfortably close anything sexually consistently but I have gotten a few numbers off mild play and very drunk girls

bump, come on guys help a nublet out

I've been there. She seems willing to let you take it to a close, but you're not sure how to get from here to there, kino-wise. Read this and you're set:

http://www.directnaturalgame.com/Techni ... adder.html

Read it, THEN come back here and read the rest of this post.... I'll wait.

DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder, once you read it and learn it, close your eyes and think about how you would climb it. Visualize arrows going from one area of a girl to the other. Then remember incidental, then overt. Always that order. Picture how you would kino in each step. Live it out in your mind, because as with all kino, if it's not natural and relaxed, if there is an ounce of hesitation or nervousness, overt kino will come out creepy. If you want to ensure success with this girl, go out and practice on other girls first, til you get "natural". Oh, and never ever ever look at the spot you're gonna kino before or during, beginners not used to a lot of touching durin convo will make this mistake and it will kill you.

Ok there's some help, report back plz! And it better be a Lay Report!

that kino article is amazing answered alot of questions i appreciate it, im also going to skip forward to comfort building in mystery and scan that i think i know what i got to do but any more hb10 advice is appreciated

I would advice you against follow a set stone of rule. Vin Dicarlo has some good pointers, but in many times it slows down your progression. By escalating I basically mean that if she let you touch her one place she will let you touch her another place as well. Just go in the rate she'll let you and you'll end up kissing.

im not good with canned material, i have never used it i just have used the tenants its built on, i like ur advice thats what ive been trying to do

yes yes YES! thats exactly what you should do. i read style (i think it was him) say that about canned material. after u get some success you start really wanting to look at the reasoning and mindset of what youre doing, and i think its a good place to be!

Sounds like your doing the right thing so far buddy. However i think there is one flaw, that i had, and have also noticed in your post. I wouldnt ever say any women is a 10 no matter how awsum she is. Dont use the mind set that wow she is a ten i need to change my game because your game will suffer. You have to have the higher social value to attract beautiful women as her looks give her hers so dont get into the mental state that she is the 'crem de la crem'. There is always a hotter woman lol

What im saying is that most of the stuff is designed to be different and interesting and most of all work. If you glamorise a woman as a 10 you will treat her slightly differently. You get me?

So as i said keep up the good work, and if she slips away you have learnt, whats worked and not and also found a greater drive to score another flamming hot women.

Peace out, Saint

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