Hey,

I like to consider myself pretty good at picking up women and I can do it pretty well. But... my problem is how to KEEP them interested if one hb10 comes along that just has that connection I would like to get to know more.

OK, so I am in this situation now. I have been dating the girl for a little over a month now. I bust her balls, and tease her a lot. I also wait until SHE txts me and take my time to reply and along with phone calls I always end them first and almost always miss her calls and call her back later saying I was busy. She and I get a long pretty good. But lately things have been getting more intense between us.. (sexually more often and such)... and I turn into a pussy chaser when that happens.. I start letting my game down when in this stage of the relationship. My longest relationship was 9 months.. and I let me game go COMPLETELY by about half that. I dont want this to happen again. I want to keep her on her toes and keep myself interesting to her in a way to keep her attention and keep HER working for MY attention. Please give me any advice or things to do /say and how to react to things and stuff. Just any advice. (btw... we are at the stage of the relationship where she is being a little distant so she can "figure me out"... thet classic stage at about 1 - 2 months.. we hardly txt much SPAM... but she calls me a lot)

THank you guys! I am just looking for advice from the best cuz I dont really know how to make sure I keep up my game.

Don't let her have sex with you all the time. Sometimes say, I'm too tired, blah blah blah. Usually they keep trying at this point and try and make you horny! You don't always have to give in, but you can sometimes, but make sure you don't other times.

You are asking us what specific actions you should perform, but you said everything is fine in the beginning, but you change your behaviour halfway through.

Shouldn't you be wondering how to avoid switching behaviours?

My suggestion is you need to have a quiet time of meditation to think about just what makes you change your behaviour halfway through. Then you could post back here with your thoughts.

heh nice. But I wasnt changing half way through... things ARE going good... but i want to know how to keep them that way because in orevious relationships i have had trouble keeping my game... because i become too involved and pussy whipped. So i am just looking for some helpful advice. Sorry if the above sounded confusing.. just need some help on how to keep her interested and such. =/ Thanks.

You said you change your behaviour halfway through - when things get more intense sexually, and you start to become a pussy chaser - that's what I was referring to I still say you need to have a think about why you do this.

The thing is that you like the girl and don't want to disappoint her while at the same time you are afraid that all the good things you do for her will be taken granted by her at some time. This problem often occurs. The girl simply becomes adjusted to everything and she starts to cool down. Even though everything is great, this feeling will become common to her and she will start losing interest up to a certain degree. I think what you need to do is to keep her at her toes. Appear busy, keep the calls little bit shorter, sometimes friendly decline an invitation and go out with some friends. Than act as everything is great again. When having sex, do it a little bit recklessly, than switch again to a romantic nice guy. Repeat this cycle from time to time. This is necessary because she will get the impression that not everything is unconditional and that she needs to invest herself as well. You must avoid getting pussy whipped, which takes discipline. She needs to experience different emotions, also things like uncertainty, doubt, sensitivity and jealousy, not just the good ones.

Women have the tendency to quickly start seeing things as granted, especially when she feels that she is a little bit in control of the situation. Then, when you refuse something or when you start asking questions and show a little bit of jealousy and vulnurbility, you come off as a pussy, annoying and less intresting. Some people call this AFC, some call it a WUSSY. You will need to get a little bit of the game up that you had when you picked her up. This takes discipline when you care about someone but I recommend you get your act together and implement this stuff as soon as possible into your feelings and your behaviour.