mantha

what are you doing?
9:36pmJohn

yo! just got back from steak and shake
9:36pmSamantha

coool

me and allie are bored

wanna go to steak n shake?

with us?
9:37pmJohn

and as always i leave my FB on

lol i just got back from there
9:37pmSamantha

really?

thats cool

why didnt you invite me?
9:37pmJohn

i thought i said that. i don't have your number or anything! lol
9:38pmSamantha

haha oh well..next time!

want my number

ok

9*************

you dont want it?

then dont call
9:38pmJohn

lol what the hell?
9:38pmSamantha

hahaha

sorry
9:38pmJohn

gez you guys must be bored!
9:39pmSamantha

SOOO BORED

what do you do on the weekends? orerr thursdays? lol
9:39pmJohn

so only when your really bored you hit me up?

lol im kidding. what do i do? ha ha unfortunately i have work during the weekends.

don't even drink much anymore, its very sad
9:40pmSamantha

haha shush i always wanna hangout with you

i just never have free time...til now

where do you work?

marcus?
9:40pmJohn

lol yeah
9:40pmSamantha

ahh mann

i havent drank in awhile either...its sad haha
9:41pmJohn

didn't you drink when you went to NIU?
9:41pmSamantha

yes
9:41pmJohn

lol that wasn't to long ago

last time i got extremely messed up was at Danas
9:41pmSamantha

really?

dangg that was awhile ago
9:44pmSamantha

but really if you have any free time and you wanna hangout with me and or allie let me knowww
9:46pmJohn

for sure i will

where do you go to school now?
9:47pmSamantha

p state

represent

lol

whatajoke
9:47pmJohn

isn't it?
9:49pmSamantha

yea im doing the cna program and taking anatomy and physiology

and my schedule sucks
9:50pmJohn

thats a bummer. at least you know what your doing though
9:54pmSamantha

yea i just need to get there

into the program already...
9:55pmJohn

yeah. im thinking of just going back to Florida and finish it out.

oh! this weekend my neighbor is throwing a huge block party

HUGE party. lots of drinking, beer pong, and other things.
9:55pmSamantha

really?

that should be fun

have fun
9:56pmJohn

Dana will be there too so you guys should come by maybe
9:56pmSamantha

where?
9:56pmJohn

uhh. right across Chicago Road from danas house

5 houses down from me
9:56pmSamantha

thats cool

well if its really ok just give me a call
9:57pmJohn

should be! everyone from chicago heights goes. yeah will do
9:57pmSamantha

haha that does sound fun
9:58pmJohn

708-**********

the one number to have
10:00pmSamantha

haha ok

thanks
10:01pmJohn

no problemo.
10:04pmJohn

actually, i might be willing to go to steak and shake. i gotta walk my dog first, and see whats happening with my g-pa to make sure hes doing better.
10:05pmSamantha

i was kidding about going there...i only said that cuz you said you just got back lol
10:08pmJohn

lol now your messing with me!
10:10pmJohn

gez
10:11pmSamantha

i always mess with everyone

haha
10:11pmJohn

well now i know you game. cause im the best at messing with people
10:12pmSamantha

are you?

haa
10:13pmJohn

so if your just messing with me, you probley gave me a fake number. thank god i saw through it, and gave you another number
10:14pmSamantha

what?

i didnt though
10:15pmJohn

lol im kidding.

guess my humor is bad
10:15pmSamantha

its hard to tell over fb chat

lol
10:15pmJohn

tis true.

saturday i get off early if you guys wanna catch a free movie, im down.
10:17pmSamantha

haha ill let you know
10:18pmJohn

ha ha alright.

well im out!
10:19pmSamantha

i later exchanged txts with her... invited her to go to a movies with me and one of my girlfriends she knew, but she was hanging out with her friend... what the hell should i do ha ha.

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Giovanni

please? lol

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honestly i didnt read the whole thing seeing as i have a life and all :p
but i did hit the highlights and......you ended weak.

i kinda felt at the end like you were saying "hey i dont have plans but if you and your friend want to, we can make plans and i'll have something to do that night"

but what you WANT to convey is "hey i'm definitely going to XXXXX on such and such day. you can come. bring your friend...IF she's cool" etc...

see what i mean? you are a MAN, nay, THE man. you have things you have planned to do and it will be so. you don't change your life, leaving a night open so a girl can meet you somewhere if she's able to. and you don't let her absorb you into HER lifestyle either. You are the man, and if she's cool you'll let her into YOUR life.

now that was a bit over the top, but you get the gist.

nermob is right. Don't ask to go to the movies, tell her you are going and she can tag a long. This goes for any activity.

Thats a really good point, I really appreciate it! I txted her once before we went to the movie, and did that same asking thing like you pointed out. She said she had previous plans.

She is a real down to earth girl, but it just feels weird txting her cause i got her number through facebook, you know?

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Giovanni

dont sweat that at all. its a completely normal MO.

thing is, girls have this radar where they can sense what you're feeling and then they feel it too. especially when it comes to bad vibes. if you think getting her number through facebook and texting her is weird, she'll think the same. if you deep down inside know its cool and fine, she won't see a problem either.

girls are dying to soak up the emotions/feelings/vibes of the ones around them, thats why inner game is so important.

i see now, thanks broske! btw what does MO mean?

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Giovanni

I think, 'MO' means 'my opinion' usually used however as 'IMHO' = 'in my humble opinion'

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lol sorry. MO = Method of operation or modus operandi...

"way of doing things" haha i watch too many cop shows.

holy crap that hit the mark!!! i always wondered why i can number close a girl but never really meet her in person! what else can we do to make her want to hang out with me....i mean other than ending in a high note. attraction is not a choice after all

so.. what should i do now?

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