Hi! So, this is starting to happen to me more and more now. I pretty much only do direct game. Really easy to execute. Everything goes well. Great attraction. But then there is this moment that I completely want to eject and chill with my friends or just do other stuff. This is straight out weird. It mostly occurs after the qualification phase, when she's trying to get the conversation going, asking question, getting rapport etc. I feel like the fun part is over now. And most of the times the girls aren't such interesting persons after all. The motivation to close in any way is completely gone too. Interest on my part is lost, I dunno what it exactly is, but it is weird as hell. After a while I don't feel like wanting to put any more effort into the conversation with the girl in particular. Also, I'm very picky when it comes to women, and I do have high standards.
Now you guys may think. Stop whining and just force yourself to continue and close. But my unmotivated lazy attitude shine's trough and girls can really feel this. It affects my game in a way I don't want to. I want to make the process of pick up enjoyable and exciting for both me and her.
So what is really going on here? Is there a way to keep me motivated and interested in pursuing the girl? And in case you may wonder, I'm not gay or stuff
