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| AJB4 | PostPosted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 5:03 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sun Nov 30, 2008 8:29 pm Posts: 62 | | Well in my class period I sat next to this girl that I wanted to talk to that sits by herself. So I did... I only said a few things like I asked a question about the class, offered her a piece of gum, and I threw a couple of jokes in. And at the end of the class she said bye, like she was glad I sat next to her and talked.
Now my friend that's skipped the last few classes said he's comin to the next class. But I've told him that I'm tryin to talk to this girl but he hasn't responded to my text.
Should I get there early and sit in the same spot to see if she sits next to me. Or should i get there late and just sit next her. Or just sit somewhere completely different with my friend or someone else.
Please Help Class Is Tomorrow
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| TMoneyIU | PostPosted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 8:49 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Sep 03, 2009 2:56 pm Posts: 51 Location: Indiana University | | Sit next to her. _________________ "I have only one counsel for you - be master."
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| AJB4 | PostPosted: Thu Sep 17, 2009 3:06 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sun Nov 30, 2008 8:29 pm Posts: 62 | | yeah but i don't wanna look like like a AFC would it better for me to get there early to see if she'll sit next to me
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| JeffL | PostPosted: Thu Sep 17, 2009 6:09 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Thu Sep 17, 2009 6:01 am Posts: 29 | | I would say actively sit next to her again. She'll be more disappointed in your performance if you let her choose. Just be cool, calm and collected. If you do happen to get there before class, let her know your friend is coming, and smoothly introduce her to him when he does. Just don't make it awkward. Remember, be the alpha male.
I would also suggest using your friend to DHV for yourself. For example, you could cover things like fun times hanging out w/ him or your travels together, but remember to bring the focus to your own value, while not overly promoting his. I don't know what kind of school you go to, but Im in university SPAM, and skipping is generally a frowned upon act for those who want to get anywhere in life. The girl will know that, and you can playfully hint at your disappointment for him skipping. This way, you indirectly DLV him without actually shooting him down.
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| BadolzoN | PostPosted: Thu Sep 17, 2009 1:05 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Aug 10, 2009 6:50 am Posts: 831 | | Sit in the RANGE of her and THEN call her over to you/ tap your seat.
We all have bubbles surrounding us, make her break your bubble don't break hers - and if you have to break hers, then give her an excuse for doing so, I.e. opener, etc.
You need a needle to burst the bubble, you can't pop a balloon with your teeth, and if you do, it'll be sloppy and it'll hurt - she will HURT you. _________________ THIS USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR BREAKING RULES 2, 3, 8, AND 9
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