I just started here at this university and I've been meeting a lot of chicks. I get about three numbers a week. I've been here three weeks, so. The problem is that when I try to connect again for a second day, it doesn't happen. Either they don't answer, they don't txt back, or they constantly have a decoy.

For instance, this has happened to me two weeks in a row now: I know of a great party (usually a frat) and I plan on bringing a group of girls (they agree). After I wait for them to get ready I get a call telling me that "we're going to another party" or "we decided to stay in tonight". What is happening? Have I not built trust?

Help me please, this is getting old!!!

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I'm a freshman at Penn State and I was here over the summer, I think I can help.

Buy some decent liquor (well, have someone buy it for you) then invite them to pregame with you and a friend or two beforehand. Tell those friends to invite girls to pregame as well. Clean up your dorm and have some coke and maybe hawaiian punch on hand for mixed drinks, some solo cups, perhaps some small clear plastic bathroom cups as well for shots. Put on some good party music; don't put on songs that are way overplayed at the frats, don't turn up the volume too loud; you want to be the loudest, the center of attention. Know which frats throw good parties, convince the girls to go there but if they're dead-set on going to a certain party, just go with it; if your group exceeds ten people some of them will probably wander off no matter where you go, girls are like that.

Your goal is not to "build trust" here; just send out a mass text to them "hey pregame at my dorm, 9:30, bring friends if you want" something like that...go to girls' floors (or if you have co-ed floors walk down the hall) introduce yourself, be friendly, invite them, get their numbers and include them in the mass text.

Then just work game on whichever cute girl shows some interest, some of them just want to drink your alcohol and then go party with their friends, don't worry about that.

I have done something similar to what Exhumed said. There is a club here on campus that on Wednesday nights it reaches max capacity with a line of over 100 people waiting to get in all night at all times. Wednesday nights at this club are probably more bumpin than any weekend at other clubs just to put it into perspective. On the day of, my housemates and I decided to throw a pregame party before going to that club. It started out at us inviting over maybe 10 friends over to chill and pregame. We decided to invite some random girls over while in class and walking back home.

We never made it to that club.

We started our pregame at 6pm and planned on going to the club at 9pm. By 8pm we had at least 70 people at the house and we ended up getting kegs and just having a party. I consider that a small party.

I guess my point is, yeah, as a college student myself, I agree with Exhumed. Just ask them to pregame and go where ever the night takes you.

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Ok, good deal. I'll probably end up doing that. Do you think it would still be effective if I used my friends room (it's on the same floor as the girls are on)? I would still be able to get booze and a party.

Question 2: One issue is that my other friends can't get into the frat that I can get the girls into, so I can't exactly pregame with them and the girls. Do you think it would be an issue to have the girls in my room w/o other guys, too awkward?

Thanks!

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