Hi guys,

Just starting to play the game. I am definitely not looking for a girlfriend, but I still want to enjoy all the fun things, like taking a girl out for dinner, going for a drinks or a movie, sleeping with / kissing for the first time etc...

My question is, when is the right time to tell a girl that you are not interested in a relationship but just like hanging out with her. In other words, when can you basically say "I want to do things with you, but I am going to do things with other people also".

If you say this too early, or too late you run into problems. Also can anyone think of the best way to say it?

Thanks for any replies.
Castor.

From the beginning.
A player would say it at the last second, a PUA says it as soon as she makes a physical connection (i.e. at first kiss).

PUA's are classy and make women feel good about themselves. Anytime she feels guilty for what she did you missed something! And be careful making girls feel guilty, they'll pull the "R" card, I know a few it happened to.

How to say it?
By making a soft close!

"You don't like clingy guys, do you?"
"No. They're annoying."

You just asked one thing, and learned something else! You now Consciously know she aggrees that clingy people are annoying, but she also Subconsciously knows that you agree with her. You now know she's okay with "doing things" with "no commitments".