In field approach report - Day time:

Well I saw an attractive girl in the uni' hallway and decided to approach. She was ahead of me, so I lightly jogged up to catch up behind her to say, "excuse me", while giving her a light tap on the arm. As soon as this happened, and as i got her attention during that split second, I swing around in front of her while maintaining good distance (all in a smooth and natural motion). I tell her, "Hi, I just noticed you pass by, and I think you're very cute; I just had to come say hi. I'm (introduce myself)" she smiles, and we shake hands. She's a bit surprised by me and forgets to tell me her name, so i ask her, her name - and she tells me it.

We continue walking, but I had to get to my next class so i tell her, "This is gunna sound strange but i'm really getting late for my next class, is it ok if i can get your phone number so i can see you again?"
She tells me, "I have a boyfriend"
To that i said,"Boyfriend, of course you have a boyfriend, look at you"

She smiles again. Then I tell her, "well since i'm really getting late for my next class, i won't persist. But it was really nice meeting you"
we shake hands again and i go upon my way.

All in all this was my first approach in a long time. I felt smooth and confident throughout the meeting and felt that even though i didn't get the girl, she seemed happy and gave me positive reactions (aside from ultimately telling me she's already tied to someone, which didn't feel much like a rejection as i did see a ring on her finger).


So what i was hoping for was mere feedback from experienced guys of my approach and encounter. I did go direct, i feel that i have the confidence to tell a girl what i think and what i want. Any further tips, suggestions are always welcomed.

Thanks guys.

you highed her value, and lowered yours by telling her she had one because shes good looking, its ok to say stuff like that but wait till shes in the stage of pulling you in, not when shes pushing you away. Otherwise use a boyfriend destroyer, not even for the sake of getting her, but you know.... just to make her doubt herself and her relationship, you know just to save face

100% agreed

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trying to take peoples girls from pick ups = wack. in my opinion.

I aint down with opp

anyways, I think you did a good job, & the bf line was nice. you mighta raised your value anyway, cuz that sounds like something she'd go tell one of her friends & you'd gain points + social proof.

decent for your first too... Alot like mine went today.