Hi guys,

After reading about negs(and using them for two days so far) I started to wonder what's the limit for negative coments.
I've seen a list of negs on this site, but would like to understand more about how do they work, what is the limit for a negative comment and what's the best way to deliver one.

Thanks in advance

I guess you haven't read enough. Some people don't even use negs, and some, only use it depending on who they are talking to. Some say if they talk to a HB8+ then one or two, because they are used to having guys always jumping on every opportunity to let them know they are BEAUTIFUL, CUTE, PRETTY, and all the other type of compliment they heard before thousands of times.

Now if you're talkin to HB8- then one at the most, or not even at all. Why? Because they are not used to having guys compliment them, and by giving them more negs, just kills and eliminates their self esteem.

REMEMBER: Always leave them better than when you found them! (GOOD sayin in my book)

Now, it's all about your personality on how you deliver them negs. If you're not confident about delivering one, then don't even worry about it, coz if you force it then you'll just come out as a jerk! Good luck

Sound like a good set of practical rules, I'll practice them this weekend and see if they help me to lower the women's bitch shield.

I have one more question, I have noticed that I can neg but only if I don't do it straight faced (I did it today with a bank cashier and received a great IOI in return when I leaved). Does it still count or do negs have to appear serious?

PS: "Always leave them better than when you found them"... this will be my creed from now on

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I wouldn't suggest doing it seriously. If you mean direct or indirect negs, you can either do both.

I'm not sure how the proper wordings were, but something like:

"Hey, you have some nice looking nails. I really like them, too bad their fake"

There's a lot of stuff in here about negs, so just search for great examples. I just put that out, even though it's not good.

yeh, I have found them to work, however depends on the girl. The more confident they are the better, women like I guy that has standards and doesnt say yes to everything a women has to say, negs demonstrate this! It doesnt have be a direct neg, it could be something like.

"I am liking that dress your wearing tonight, but there is only one problem, my ex-gf had exactly the same on"

not only qualifies you, that other girls find you attractive, puts them on the back foot

No.FX

Thanks a lot for your replies guys, they are much appreciated.

Summing it up: I'll use them only a few times (if needed) an will drop them as jokes.

Negs can me used for a few reasons.

1) If a woman is full of herself you might neg her to bring her head out of the clouds.
2) If a woman has her defence shield up you can neg her to make her feel like you aren't picking her up.
3) You can use a neg to get a woman to qualify herself to you.
4) You can use a neg to get her friends to be allies with you.
5) You can use a neg to punish (sounds bad but I can't think of a softer word to use) a woman if she doesn't comply.

I'm sure there are more reason I'm missing but you get the idea.

As for who to use a neg on, well it can be anyone. It's just another tool to help a woman get out of her own way and enjoy life.

The local community in my area discourages the use of negs until you develop your ground work better and become calibrated to the point of having an intimate understanding of the social dynamics at play, (i.e. being in the field long enough to understand body language, accurately predict social connections based on brief observation, etc.). I can successfully use negs, but on occasion I'll blown myself out using them. Honestly, it never hurts to try something new; especially if your maintaining the idea that there is an abundance of women (props to Savage) and the interaction that your finding yourself in isn't the only thing you have going for you!

You'll get it figured out, just don't make negs your main focus. There are many other areas to focus on that can get you even farther than a little neg!

Happy Sarging!

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