guys this place is great everyone seems to be so generous about their valuable knowledge and experience. hope one day i can do the same.

anyhow,
i met this 22 yo old (im 25) in front of her college yday, i chatted with her and DHV through showing some knowledge about her line of work, and told her something new about ppl's mindset etc....
so 15 mins later, i said we should stay in touch and asked her for no, she happily gave that and she even sneaked me into her college library so i can find some materials.

a day later i texted her, we exchanged 4-5 texts,
at the end, i said
JDAACE: hey i gotta run, why dont u join me for a drink this week, r u free mon or tue? let me know.
GIRL: OK cool, speak soon.

What kinda answer is that???? was like wtf

OK today 7pm, i tried again,

I made up a nickname for her

so here goes

JDAACE: hey (funny name) soz had to run yday, so u free between 9 to 10? I will give u a call.
GIRL: (funny name)? i m just off work exhausted
JDAACE:yeah i figure that sound like u! i know 7/7 u must be shattered, u must have sleep hours like a baby, text me ur bed time, i will try to call u b4 then.
GIRL: Funny name. haha thats cool i like that. yeh very tired today but day off tmr so that cool. bed time varies but usally at 11.

then i called her at 9:30....didnt pick up
called again at 10:05.....didnt pick up either....

this girl is such a flake.
i cant call text her again now, too much neediness.....any great advice for nx move tho?

i would appreciate any advice guys. and good luck to u all

J.

I have the same problem when I find a girl that I could genuinely like...I make her build interest in me, and when she does...I wanna flip out and be happy and get with her asap...WRONG! *trust me , it has failed me many times*.

Just be chill. Act as if nothing happened, and don't text or talk to her til late night (i.e. her bedtime...dont try and hangout with her the next day. Punish her a little bit or seem like you're too busy today) but try and make plans for a future date.

When asking for a first common date (i.e. you want to take her to a bar)...I always say "Ill be drinking at (name of bar) around (whatever time) with a few friends." DO NOT INVITE HER! That is key! If she is into it, SHE WILL INVITE HERSELF by saying something along the lines..."Oh yeah? Where's (name of bar)? What time should I meet you .. bla blah blah w/e". If she is truly interested, she will take it upon herself to come and meet you or ask for a ride or w/e.

HOPE THIS HELPED

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well i texted her back and tell her off to say she's playing hard to get.

she texted bk to say she's got a bf.

i asked her how long she has got this problem for, and she said he's not a problem but a lovely guy been dating for 2 yrs.

so i just said i respected that and wish them all the best

i suppose thats just the nature of the game. I accept that. thanks for the he;p mcNare.

dude, bad. mcnare is right, you don't invite the girl the way you did.
you're supposed to convey you're a social/busy guy, mention your going someplace with your mates and suggest she come. Don't phrase it as a question. Always say '... you should come.' that's all.

Worst yet, you told her off?! WTH man. PUAs are unreactive. Our realities are stronger than other ppls. What does a PUA do when a girl flakes? He goes out and bangs some other chick. When women sense your of high value, and could care less if she's being flaky, attraction increases. Because this is so unlike any other man she's ever met.
The bf is irrelevant. You messed up. If she really did have a bf, it means she was willing to be with you regardless. Learn from your mistakes.

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