Hi Guys,

I’m pretty new to this whole world so slowly getting my feet wet. Am currently reading the Game which I am absolutly loving. A new world is opening up before me.

I need some help with a girl I met on holiday a few weeks back. Nothing happened while we were there, we were both out with sets of friends and there was never a good moment.

(In truth, I think there was something there but basically I had no balls to follow up) She’s a great girl, smart, very pretty, and got her head screwed on. Easily a 10.

I have been speaking to her a lot via email and text. We have a talked about everything, but nothing about my feelings/her feelings etc. we haven’t really got close to any conversations like that. The problem is, I think I’m close to missing my opportunity, and turning it into a ‘just friends’ situation.

How can I switch it before it s too late? Does anyone have any idea’s or experienced a similar situation like this before?

She has mentioned that there’s no good ‘talent’ where she lives, perhaps I should have opened up on this?

I do neg her a little, but it’s quite difficult over email with no tone of voice…

She doesn’t live close so it’s going to require some effort. But dam… she is worth it. I will see her, in about a month, my friends and I are going to see them for a re-union, so there’s an opportunity there.

Would be great if anyone can help or offer any advice

Thanks

cheshire..

you have to be aggressive, if you feel that your window is closing, it probably is, and you're probably lucky it hasnt yet. Ask her on a date, soon. Or even if she just wants to hang out but you can't hesitate. Thats how you lose the moment.

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Here's to those that wish us well, and to those who don't, "Go to hell!"

What I am about to tell you is going to become the most incredibly powerful weapon in your arsenal, so pay close attention. It's called the SOI, or Statement of Interest, and in some cases it is all you need to take a relationship directly out of the friend zone and into your bed.

An SOI is basically a direct telling of your interest in the girl/guy you are gaming. It can be simple or complex. My favorite is "I find <blank quality she's just shown> really sexy." It's simple. It's elegant. And it lets him/her know that you are not to be tethered by artificial restrictions on your relationship.

SOIs go hand-in-hand with what is known as a relate/reward cycle. You relate to something she's said, and you reward her for that relation. If she says something you find funny, you may reward her by saying "I find a sense of humor really sexy." If she says something sad, you can reward her by offering to take her mind off it (in a non-sexual, non-threatening way). As you build rapport, relate/reward cycles begin to end in bigger SOIs. This is known as Conversational Escalation. It's something like Kino Escalation, in both ideal and pacing.

Relate/Reward. Then SOI. Then escalate. Wear a condom.

Dear Cheshire,

I think you should stop emailing her so much. Just stop. Answer her now and then, appear busy and thats it. I think emailing is really bad. THere are only words, written. So you cant really do anything couse everything is missing. You dont have body language, you cant see her face, you cant hear her voice and her reactions. IT just sucks. So if u really like this girl, ok. Sit down, you have one month, start learning as much as you can. Get ebooks on cofidence, attraction, comedy, magic tricks and the game generally. When you meet again you will be a completly different peson in her eyes, you CAN learn a LOT in one month.

By the way, dont go crazy about this one chick. There are tens of thousand of hot chicks. Go into action, practice on other chicks, so you can be real good when you get to her.

So only the book, The Game, wont help you enough. Its just a story, a good one, but everything you really need to learn is not in this book. So search.

see ya

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Lord Steve Farell

Hey guys im new in this scene i heard about thsi world from styles book the game, and i think this is crazy i cant believe ti works its amazing, my whole life i pretty much being a natural im 20 and i had sex with many chicks pretty much the worse looking owuld be a hb7 , but of all those chicks i fucked multiply it times 50 and thats how many times i gotten peaced... i dont knwo y sometimes theres hb9 or tens that digg me soo easily and than some 7 that dont even want to see the bac of my head... so lately i tried something new neggin... ihave never done that but lately i prob done it to like 8 chciks and they all end it up hating me or didnt rly work.... i def need some advice with the neggin, and the other thing all those opners with college girls like the opinion openbers and shit i dunno if they work all this chicks here are soo imature...

About the neg's you have to know how to calibrate them; Don't be rude, Be funny your just making an appointment that coem out of your mind , remember to use the correct Neg , Say the NEG in A2 .


How to calibrate a NEG?

It's all about expirience, It's not the same the Ego of a Hired Gun or a SHB11 than the ego of a HB6 that dont get attention. Get the point ?

For SHB11 you can use 2 - 3 (Maybe 4 >your choice )

For HB10 - HB9 - Use 2

HB8.5 - HB7 : 1 - or none just use C&F


See the reaction fo the girl , MAybe you wil meet some SHB that with only one neg you have the girl but if you force a neg maybe she will hate you.

Remember there is a Really Thin line that divides Attraction and Hate. And a NEG can cross that line.




Any questions send em a PM

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