I work at a grocery store and usually interact with about five to ten girls anytime I come in. Well I get IOI's from almost every girl that bags for me or that comes in contact with me. I've been slapped in the ass, bumped in the ass, and have had my arms grabbed. The problem is I don't know how to escalate. I can run game all day and I always keep them interested, but I never # close any tips?

Also one of my managers at the store is like a HB 8.5 she is my age. Her and me will lock eyes for ten + seconds anytime we see each other from a distance, but I have no idea how to make anything happen... or what this means? There has only been one time when she was taking over my check stand I negged her, she laughed, but then I got that feeling.. Blood rushed to my head and my knees went weak on me and I froze up.

you could look up some theory about what to do when you're in the A2/A3 stage and how to take it from there mate

Thanks for the response, Chill.

Pick up at work = nono.

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oh yeah I forgot to mention that

The other day I read a post on this forum about a guy trying to pick up his co-worker when he thought he had a green light but she went to his boss and he got fired.

Also, if its your boss...dude that would get awkward and she will eventually fire you or ask you to leave

not true ive picked up co workers b4 its jus knowing wen someone is friendly and someone could take it further... but yea ino wat u mean dude theres a hb 9.5 at shop near my house, but its just the way they are if they are flirty they know ul come back, even just for there own attention and not for income for the shop in this current recession

Picking up at work is dangerous. Most times it goes bad, but that's just a warning like all the others.
Now if I were you, I might straight-up call them out on it. This makes them feel a little embarrassed, and then they wont be able to STOP thinking about you. Next time your HB 8.5 is giving you her sex eyes, walk over to her and tell her you're not a piece of meat, and sometimes "you girls can be soo invasive." Be sure to smile and make it sound teasing. She might say she wasn't checking you out, but you can reply with "Really? 'Cause I was standing right over there, and I had this strange feeling like I was naked all of a sudden, then I saw you giving me those undressing eyes..."
I might even say, something along the lines of, "Now I'm curious if you're the person that keeps calling me late at night and hanging up." She might laugh here and say no. "Too bad, I was looking forward to ignoring your phone calls."

Be smooth and confident.
Cheers,
JONAS

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Thanks guys for all the replies it means a lot.

Jonas thanks for the lines they could come in useful soon. She is one of the like nine managers I have above me at work. She is the lowest level manager though. The only problem is anytime she stares at me she is ringing up items for customers. If I were to go over straight to her and drop a line that might get me in trouble lol...

I should try and talk to her on break or during lunch, but she is a manager so she eats in the managers office with other managers... it kinda sucks..

But the other girls at my store are easy I'm always running game on them. Then again most of them are 6's.. I just can't number close for some reason. I have to have a reason I feel kinda afc if I just ask for a number for no reason. I understand these girls are easier because in a way "I'm putting the pussy on a pedestal" when it comes to the 8.5.

Asking for numbers can be awkward, but sometimes it's nothing special. The key I think is just really to ask for it. Be funny and comforting so you don't scare her off.

If you want to get numbers, think of funny ways to ask for it.

"Listen, can I get your number? When I become your boss, I'll need to get a hold of you to tell you when to work and what not."

"Say, can I get your number? My friends and I are trying to find new people to drunk dial."

Just be creative and think of something cool.

Also, you can say you're doing something later, like a party, concert, game, club, or something like that. Then say, "Hey, it'd be cool if you came. My friend is looking to meet some crazy girls." Maybe she says she's not crazy, "Oh nevermind then, I'll just ask someone who isn't in denial then."

Have fun, cheers
JONAS

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Thanks again Jonas for the quick reply. I go in today in like 30 minutes I'll try and get a number close today.

Like 2 months ago I asked a chick at my work who was sending me IOI's if she wanted to go to a party. I pussed out and just gave her my facebook, she never added me. It was weird between her and me for like two weeks, but I just forgot about it. I guess that's why I freeze whenever I'm about to ask another chick for contact info.

If they're flirty with you OUTSIDE of shop (i.e when you're getting your order) she's just being paid to be nice.

Flirty inside = she thinks you're hot/ interesting.

I've been getting hit on by like 2 chicks at my job that I just started and I don't take it further than "Oh hah thanks" or "Hi" because I know it can compromise my job/ life.

Find pussy OUTSIDE of job it's so easy to get laid so why do it in a risky fashion?

If the girl is showing STRONG IOIs aka is almost literally grabbing your dick then, yeah, you can fuck her, but be careful for when you have to tell her "I'm seeing someone else" etc, 'cause even if you don't get fired, you'll wanna quit because of how awkward it'll get.

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I still want to press on with my manager... My confidence is lacking though... they make us wear these huge shirts that fit about 2 sizes to big... so a small is a large... and I feel scrawny and it shows..

I'm going to buy some new polos that fit right and just get them embroidered.

I went in today for an hour long meeting. The 8.5 was working downstairs. As I was clocking out she was staring at me as usual... I just threw a cocky smile, she smiled back, and then I waited for her to break contact first. I feel so afc lol..

Jonas could you throw me another line, but for this manager? I can't use the first two you gave me on her the one about being her boss soon would be a stretch and if I used the drunk dial one that might get me in some trouble : /.

Uh how about you go out and try to find a girl that way?

You're RISKING WAY TOO MUCH by hitting on your MANAGER?

Cmon bro, you're not Mystery, if you fuck something up it'll be over with your job.

Even if you don't get fired, it'll get awkward.

You better be working at a minimum wage job or w/e and don't care if you lose it.

Or else!

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Your right Bad. It's just I want to at least try and do something about it. If she wasn't my age I wouldn't be trying to attempt this.

Yeah I only make like a buck more than minimum wage... it sucks.

Yeah, so you're not risking much.

If it's at a minimum wage joint, and she's your manager, she's prolly making like 11 bucks an hour or 9 lmao

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