I've kinda had a shit track record with dating and due to it my trust is not so easy to earn but i try my best and keep my mouth shut most of the time on things.


This however is bothering me.


Girl I'm dating as of recent laughs everytime i ask her a serious question about her ex.

Her and her ex still talk and he's been trying to get back with her. Now she recently found out that he started talking to another girl. She made a huge deal outa this like was pissed calling hima nd making fun of him for "dating a fatty" since the girl is a lil heavy i guess.


After about a week of her messing with him sending him texts like " get' er baby get that fatty, you left me for a whale ..." (she open reads them to me for some reason I've never asked her to nor really want to but she insists) btw after a week of them abck and forth like that I asked her if she had some emotion attachment to him still and if she needs more tim eto figure it out (which i really am fine with) She said no not at all bla bla bla

Then i asked if shes done anything with him since me and her were together and she stated to laugh and wouldn't look me in the eyes. That to me is a big sign someones hiding something. I know I used to smerk when being asked about a lie when i was younger till i learned and tuaght myself how to lie better lol

I'm really thinking she isn't being honest with me what are your thoughts?

How long have you and her been together? It kinda sounds like she isn't over him if she is getting the shits that he is dating someone else. I don't really believe that exes can remain friends after they break up. I don't have anything to do with my ex now that I have another boyfriend even though I thought me and my ex would be together forever when we were dating. After we first broke up, we tried to be friends but it just didn't work. We would always end up back together.... It's best to just cut of all ties... I would suggest talking to her but don't act like a possessive jealous boyfriend because she will drift further away from you and the truth if you do...

My advice is to ditch her bro. She is not over her ex...no matter what a girl tells you if she is texting her ex shes not over him 100%. The first sign of trouble in your relationship and she will go running to him.

Tell her you dont like her talking to her ex and if she doesnt seem to care then ditch her.

This.

I would give her some space to sort herself out. Tell her that you can see she is not over him and you don't want him to be involved in your relationship.

sorry bro it sounds like she may be rebounding on you. hope you wern't looking for anything too serious. i'd say to leave before you get too attached.

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If you are attached already, LEAVE NOW.

If you are not, keep her around for your pleasure but you MUST make sure to keep yourself scarce..both for the social effect AND so you don't invest too much of your valuable time with someone who's going to try to tool you. She'll see that you also have other possibilities in your life and if she cares enough to want to be more serious, she'll cut the shit...if not...then enjoy her body and happy hunting.

slyder2412 wrote [If you are attached already, LEAVE NOW.

If you are not, keep her around for your pleasure but you MUST make sure to keep yourself scarce..both for the social effect AND so you don't invest too much of your valuable time with someone who's going to try to tool you. She'll see that you also have other possibilities in your life and if she cares enough to want to be more serious, she'll cut the shit...if not...then enjoy her body and happy hunting.]

This is good advice!

I wouldn't jump through her hoops unless she worked for it. Meaning try to get her to invest more into you. If she brings up the ex I'd use reverse psychology and defend him. Something along the lines of "they sound like they're really cute together" But don't continue the topic further just change it like "kind of reminds me of so and so who are really good friends of mine" and go on about whatever.

You can probably read her truths and lies by the reactions to your shit tests.

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