ok i need some suggestions.....

i got a sex relationship with a girl for 3 weeks and she's getting quitte serious about a relationship ( i know her for 6 months, i was in friendship zone for a while) she teels me she only wants a sex relationship but i know she wants a serious relationship.

I looked on her phone because i did want to send a message to a friend. she was afraid i would look through her messages - she snatched the phone out of my hand and i was like WTF what do you got to hide ? she deleted some messages for a minute and gave me back her phone

i saw some messages about her ex visiting her( a week ago) ... and she told me a while ago ( few weeks) he's a dickhead making anoying sexual comments to her even 4 months after they broke up. She told me she doesn't want to hang out with him and doesn't want contact with him.

i read a message written by her friend(female) and in the message she mensioned my semi-GF's ex-BF ?!?!!? i was like she didn't even told me he visited her.
and after whe had sex ( 2 days ago ) she told me she regret having sex withh me but still kissed me etc.

and im like ok why the fuck does her ex visit her .... and she probably forgot to delete the message of her female friend mentioning the name of my semi-GF's ex-BF. it said literally :

message from : female name

i want to thank you and blablabal for .... etc

she didn't even mensioned her ex-BF visiting her...... that's weird because i did ask about her female friend and i asked about what she did this week. + she deleted messages from her phone when i was about to look - she just snatched it out of my hand. Her ex-BF lives far from here so im WTF why would he visit ?

I got my own ideas on handling this but what do you guys think ? any comments or helpfull suggestions?

I barely understand what you're writing, but I think you're lying to yourself right now about your sex-only relationship.
And if she's sleeping around with her ex boyfriend, maybe you should just come out and ask her.
Ask her to be honest with you, that's all you can do.

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Stop looking in girls phones.


I've been there and it will do more harm then good. Besides, ITS NONE OF YOUR GODDAMN BUSINESS.




Don't read in to it much. and be clear about your intentions.