So I got a girl's number from a club the other night. HB8, talked to her a lot, made her laugh, ect. She showed me a lot of IOI's. I got her number and told her I'd call her for lunch sometime. I haven't called her back since then, it's been 2 days (it's a good thing to wait right?).

Anyway, I can never close the deal after the club. Whenever I get a chick's number from a club I usually never end up seeing her again. Although I did feel like this chick was pretty interested in me.

So I want to meet up with her sometime, but how would you guys approach this? Should I just call her instead of sending her a text? If I ask her to meet up with me should I make it seem like a date?

If I wanna hook up with her, how do I a) find out if she wants to as well? and b) go for it without looking like a perv?

help is greatly appreciated, the sooner the better. thanks guys!

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Some people are like slinkys, not really good for anything but make you smile when you push them down the stairs.

How long did you talk to her?

I think Mystery's material would be the best right here, although you might want to just start over with another chick altogether after taking in Mystery's stuff.

I say Mystery's stuff because it seems to apply the most to that particular venue.

Personally I would call this chick back and run of some Swinggcat's material until you fuck her, unless of course you talked to her for a long time at the club and she knows you too well already.

lunch as a first date instant friend zone, not cool. if you want to take her out during the day if she athletic girl go to batting cages, something interesting. i would only do lunch after you get to know her and establish comfort. you said you hit it off so you should know what shes into and your date should relate to that.

2 day rule? i dont belive in that, a girl once told me she didnt give me her number for no reason, ever since then i always contact within first 36hrs. its true if you think about it. ya some girls give there # out like candy but if thats the case you can weed them out quickly and move on. the time frame really is decided by your interaction, if you make pre-plans to meet up next day then hit her up sooner than later.

You can call if you want, but she may be busy, text seems safe because if she doesn't reply then move on, but if she replys then you can feel her out and see what her intent is. dont jump right to asking her out you seem pushy, make her remember why she was into in the first place, be the guy she gave her number to.

when it comes to hookin up, you should know when you have an in.

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Yippi ki ya yippi yi yi yo, if you can't swim don't smoke my hydro.

If you connected with her and you have waited two days, Thats enough waiting, call her!!

I normally call the day after, but if I feel that we didn't really connect then I wait another day.
The 3day rule is pointless, and a girl will usually call you out on it (figure out that you waited 3days on purpose).

Call her and go for casual coffee or a drink, in my oppinion, food on the first date is not a good idea, save that for later. Go to a cosy place, have something to drink and just talk! Dont just send a text, call her and do it know!!

When it comes to the call, make it brief but purposeful, call her while you are doing something else, five minutes is plenty, just keep it cool.

If you talk to her too long you have more time to screw it up.

Now go call this sexy mama!

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You're right about the lunch date, what was I thinking.. lol. I think I'm gonna invite her to drink with me and then go out to a bar/club. That way we'll both get drunk and more comfortable and if I'm drunk enough and hitting it off well again I'm def gonna make some move.

Anyway I just texted her and this is all we said..

Me: hey alexis, what are you up to?
Her: Who is this?
Her: Just kidding
Me: Lol good one. Ur not in atlanta right?
Her: I live by the airport, but im sick right now. I will have 2 txt u later


I guess I should just wait now and hope she txts back or something.

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Some people are like slinkys, not really good for anything but make you smile when you push them down the stairs.

oops, sorry for double post

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Some people are like slinkys, not really good for anything but make you smile when you push them down the stairs.

if you get the chance to take her out go to a bar or lounge but dont get drunk. you can have a few drinks but if you get sloppy its a major turnoff. respect that she is sick and wait for a text back. either way bro all the info provided you will be able to use towards your next # close then we can read up on your FR.

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Yippi ki ya yippi yi yi yo, if you can't swim don't smoke my hydro.