forget about her for now....walk away and do something completely radical, a totally new you, join a sports team, get a new hair style, some new cologne and interact with everyone around being sure not to interact with her. Open other girls...date other girls, let her know you are dating other girls.

you need to throw her out of her comfort zone after all the above is done. with her being an academic you find an area that she thinks she knows but probably doesnt, throw a question her way and when she doesnt get it, gentle neg

" i cant believe you didnt know that, i thought you were smart"

you need to really hit this girls self asteem without crossin the boundary, push her as far as you feel comfortable and then back off, if shes book smart you might want to hit her appearance abit but also throw a few back handed compliments at her personality.

your game is going to have to be tight and your patience high, you need to run a long game, without hittin the friendship zone, you can dig a whole with your mouth but you certainly cannot dig steps so take caution in your approach but you need to be a totally new person

good luck

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Agree and Disagree. No need to CHANGE yourself. but definitly neg her! throw her off. make her think "hmmmm.... why doesnt he want me?"

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the reinvent yourself is because if you have failed so far, she doesnt see him a potential suitor, if he completely changes himself and takes a new approach she will re-evaluate her options, if he just tries a new approach it starts to look needy

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Last summer I thought to myself, I'm a good pick up artist, why could I never get that chick? the chick that became my oneitis.
So I decided that, no matter what, I'm gonna do it, the only contact I had with her then was a few brief messages on myspace, so nothing big, but I saw her pics and she was even hotter than before.

So at that moment she lived in europe, so I told my wing , we are going to europe this summer, and we both have family to visit there as well so he agreed to tag along.

I got her number off myspace and flew to europe to meet her, I played my best game, played it cool and before I knew it, she leaned in and kissed me! 5yrs ago that would have been the best day of my life, no I was like "eh fuck it"
So I stayed with her for a couple of days, went all the way, I was happy, she was out of my head, I flew back home and I was cured.

My point is, if you can win your oneitis and get her out of your head, its worth it. But there is a risk in it, you might make it worse.

Thats why I keep my mantra "ALL WOMEN ARE DISPOSABLE"

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You freakin kidding me?
wow nice man i will keep that in mind, to take others advice im thinking change the hairstyle i have to get contacts sometime soon lol
Biggest mofo i have at the mo is sweat! i moved from a colder country to australia. Not underarm and that but over the face because the humidity here is soo high.
Any ideas for radical changes and keeping my face sweat bead free (btw i really dont want to be carrying a handkerchief around the whole school)
Radical changes guys it will have to stick to anything you can recommend

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you dont have to be too radical, i was after my oneitis a while back and it was discussed on this here forum, i got a tattoo, had my hair cut short and got some new clothes, the tattoo was probably a bit far but i do like it and it worked a charm,

dont make the mistake i made, get the girl, do the girl, move on, i ended up in a relationship and because i was crazy about her she walked all over me, after we split up i fucked her agian and walked away

becareful man, and good luck

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Schools OVER! yay
I have to tell you guys wtf!
this is what i have done with this girl
Asked her to prom (Check)
Got her a lil interested (check)
Negged a bit about her inteligence (check)
But nothing was really sticking so what i did was this
told her that she wasn't saying my name right and coz shes an inquisitive girl, she always ends up asking me. For now i just smile and sidetrack the conversation. like today i used prom as an excuse then when that ran out i used the whole ok then .. Guess! =)
I also knew before how busy this girl was to get her out of the academic environment i told her when i asked her to prom "it all depends on whether you can dance or not"

To that she started listing off what she could do.. is that qualifying or just answering the question???
So i ended my convie with her today with "hey you haven't learnt how to dance yet"
She said she is taking music lessons at 7 til 9 on Wednesdays so instead of going home she will learn from me.
Yes i know ballroom guys, let me tell you it is a definite pua skill!!!
Remember we Pua's must be the exception

Damn i go offtrack a lot. So i am wondering would that be the perfect time to isolate and slowly escalate Kino?
As she is shy i'm trying to find some ways of keying her into her sexuality and gradually getting her to warm up to my touch.

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Yes!

Sounds like she wants to go to prom with u but idk? Prom isnt till like 3rd semester tho right? so plenty of time on that one.

just LET IT FLO NATURALLY WITH THE KINO. no need to rush into it. keep things natural and dont be in the friend zone. keep ur options open

"I am in love with you, but come on. Am I supposed to remain celibate while I bask in like the warm glow of your annihilating contempt?" - The Tao Of Steve ( GO WATCH THIS MOVIE )

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it is like in 4 weeks for me lol
il have to step it up ae?

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Hey guys
I have just evolved. Yup i said it. EVOLVED!
I'm finally over this whole one-itis thing. Does this mean i'm going to stop trying? hell no! I still want to go there but the whole neediness frame has gone away.
I feel Liberated =)
I'l still post a field report on Wednesday though, i have plans with her then.

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ur over ur one-itis, but ur still going out with this girl? in my experience this is a bad idea and could get u hurt but gl man.

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i fucking hate oneitis

haha
Get this guys she found out!
yup she found out about my stud status which i got for fukn this my ex on the front lawn of some dudes house at an after party lol.
she even asked me about so (reluctantly) i told her.She seemed cool with it and then shared something lame about how she has never kissed a guy. To cut a long story short. I ended up showing her some waltzing moves before her practice and then ended it with a hug and went for the "and a kiss on the check"
IT DIDNT WORK lol... i am wondering whether it is due to the status or not hmmm.
Anyway i will game as normal again laying off the contact at school and then going for the long awaited dance lesson sometime soon.

I was thinking would it be good to show more sexuality now that she knows about the whole "status" thing or would that portray a negative vibe... such as sleezy.

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dude i havent been hearin from u in a while, good to kno ur still alive, but IMO, u should find some more HBs, forget this chick

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Yup still alive going to hit the clubs next weekend for the first time (18) yay!
Well first time legally anyway lol.

You guys heard of the Hiroshima Opener? i was thinking about it because i have a mate turning 18 five days after me so i could use his name and show him the photos and get him to flip out which will help me drive up my rep again. Plus i'm hoping it will help me get her out of my head. I think i had a small run in with fractionation (over for a while then back in even harder). What a bitch that shit is!!!

But now i have a bit Halloween party with a girl i casually hook up with from another town an hour or so away. Yeah, who said long distance relationships cant work? Just make it a purely sexual one =).

Anyway that weekend will be perfect for photos which will go on Facebook and it will show my prom date pre-selection. Hey which reminds me guys i know we are an <underground> society but it would be cool to add some of you guys on Facebook so you can kind of get where i am coming from here.

Post your Facebooks and i will add you =)

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