Hey guys, sup?!

I could need some clarification on my sticking point. I get along with girls from my class really well but I often times experience that I get caught in, what I call, a "clash mode". By this I mean that I get attraction solid and I don't run any routines, yet I tease quite often (I'm not really sure wheather I do it that often...) and this developes into something like a role play that they act bitchy around me.

Like, whenever I say something this one girl (she's the most extreme example) always replies with a stupid answer or throws in some stupid comment. I think I'm stuck in the attraction phase without really talking about something serious and genuine. Not always putting on this teasing - front. Thus they aren't compliant with me pulling them in or any minor escalation but yet they all are showing with their body language towards me and giving me all other kinds of IOIs. I think it's an issue with their consciousness that they think they have to play this role. It was a fun thing to play this in the beginning of the first interactions but I moved forward, they didn't.

Anyways, I think it's because I don't qualify them enough so they feel inferior and intemidated by me, which is why they put on this front, in order to not get hurt when I don't respond positivly. I think I should also build more comfort or have some sort of serious conversations with them.
All I can say is, it sucks so hard that when they act this way, I truly feel so repelled that I genuinely don't want to have something to do with them anymore.

I'd like to hear your opinions on this, guys!

Pulsebeat

this sounds like something similar that happens to women with men sometimes. men feel that they need to be cautious so the female doesnt hurt them. i'd say just let it play out. it'll take a little time, but im no expert on this topic either.

but so far your doing great. you've created yourself to be the prize and got the meta-frame in your direction. hats off to you brother.

-dw3llz

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