Aite so, this girl is around a 9... & she has her shit together, she's going to school, not fucking up or partying, a real diamond in the rough, right? & we were aquiantances in HS, hi and bye, we never new each other, but we knew the same people so we kinda just said hi to one another if we saw each other in the hall... normal shit...

So now, on myspace... I try flirting a little bit a while back, & its wierd, cuz she don't shoot it down, or give into it... so I'm like stalemated...

Like... when you flirt, the good signs are always like laughter, her being engaged in what ur saying, & keepin the convo going, & I'm getting all those signs, but she don't do it back, or show any big ioi's...

But she gave me her number upon me asking... So its like...? What the hell lol..? I can't read this chick...

One thing is, she had/may have a bf, and I'm leaning towards him being the reason she's like that... like she's holding back possibly..? But if you had a BF you were serious with, why let me flirt with you and keep it going?

So its either, that, or she's just too nice, maybe? Idk, someone give me a second opinion.

Sounds like you're deep in the LJBF gut. One possibility might be that youve been too decent-guyish with her...

Stop giving so much shit about her, get cocky/funny when you meet, appear detached and all look cool as if you don't care, do some negs and basic kino. It should fire her synapses a little. the last round.. try to close. you'll land up on either side of the bank and be done with this ambiguity.

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Well, that shouldn't be hard...

Cuz I don't give a shit lol...

That's just what threw me threw a loop, cuz its almost obvious that I'm just trying to talk to her & aint just being friendly for no reason lol.

Precieate it tho...

I know exactly what you mean. I gamed this girl for a while and I always get the IOIs. But she never returns anything back, well kind of. She sometimes says stuff, that kinda plays to whatever I say to her.

For example, I text her saying, "After playing that game (strawberry field) I think I have an idea of what kind of girl you are, I bet you, you're one of those good girls" (totally opposite, just throwing a bait, for her to bite)

Her reply " I am GOOD, but I can be naughty too "

Okay, so i was like "she's giving in" But whenever I see her, it's like nothing happened. Straight tripping! In the end, I just gave up because it ain't worth trippin over ONE girl! ya know!

If I were you, I 'll try NLP in this situation. She is interested, she tolerates you, likes you, but there is a lack of something. Maybe some magic tricks or neurolingiustic programming would change her mind and she will perceive you as extraordinary guy. If you have NLP experience, try it.

I was in a similar situation once which just led to nowhere. But after i gave up i remembered when the girl paid most attention to me. She really listened and sometimes kinoed me when i mentioned parties or other social situations where i hinted i was getting attraction from other girls. Social proof!!!! use it wisely. Once she starts touching you then start with the cocky/funny shit.

I was in a similar situation once which just led to nowhere. But after i gave up i remembered when the girl paid most attention to me. She really listened and sometimes kinoed me when i mentioned parties or other social situations where i hinted i was getting attraction from other girls. Social proof!!!! use it wisely. Once she starts touching you then start with the cocky/funny shit.