If you are one of thoes guys who girls like to look at, this might be
the shit for you. If not, it might be totally useless.

If you make eyecontact with a girl, and she smiles and you smile,
esspecially if she just after smiling takes a look down the best thing to do is a direct approach. You could say pretty much anything, she wount blow you away.

So thats good... But what about using this very interesting situation and create a once in life time moment for this girl.

This is fieldtested ( I didnt have a clue what was gonna go down when I did it, but I did it)

Make the approach.
"I was just thinking about what do here.."

If she wants to say something just "husch" her with your finger in front of your mouth, she cant say anything, or she'll ruin the moment.

"I could have offered you whats left of my drink,
but thats weird and a bit cheap..

I could honestly have said there is something special about,
and that you're beautiful, but that would have been try hard.

I could have asked you for your name, but a name doesnt really say much about a person, cause most people dont pick out there own.

There is really only one thing I wanne know.

Her: Whats that?
You: Do you know where the bathroom is?

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I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

hahah brilliant!

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solid gold right here!

dude this is crazy good!!!! i will use it this next weekend but im gonna have to come up with an Spanish version cause i live in the usa and everybody speaks Spanish here, but man how did you came out with this one

dude this is crazy good!!!! i will use it this next weekend but im gonna have to come up with an Spanish version cause i live in the usa and everybody speaks Spanish here, but man how did you came out with this one

what does this mean?? "I was just thinking about what do here.." did u mean i was jus thinking about what to do here?

Correct. Im sorry.
This was an opener I used... (I was just thinking about what do here...)


And then I kind of improvised. It wasnt exactly like that but pretty close.
But this is the kind of thing you wanne do after you had Eye-contact.
Cause thats the reason why you are approaching.

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

Woow! Why haven't I read this earlier.

Amazing!

Will definitely give it a try Thursday night.

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Don't let no one get you down. Keep moving on higher ground.
Keep flying until, you are the king of the hill.
No force of a nature can break, your will to self-motivate.
She says this face that you see, is destined for history.

Funny, really builds it up, makes you stand out from the crowd, not the usual "i saw you looking at me" BS. I am def going to give this baby a try next time that situation happens.

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So, I tried this little baby myself. I can tell you, it was enjoyable. Opener went great. But after she told me where the bathroom was, I actually did go to the bathroom and lost her, LOL! I guess actually heading for the bathroom isn't such a good idea. Anyways, nice little opener. But remember to stay in set.

Also, I want to point out that opening like this is kinda shocking for her. We made some EC upfront, and I was really building up the tension with this opener. And then out of a sudden, she hears the bathroom line. I felt I was really busting her. Poor girl.

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Don't let no one get you down. Keep moving on higher ground.
Keep flying until, you are the king of the hill.
No force of a nature can break, your will to self-motivate.
She says this face that you see, is destined for history.

Nice man!
To bad you lost her.

I have a little idea of how to stay in the set.

Since this opener is really strong and in away anti-cheezie,
you could go a little cheezie on her.

"Wait a sec, what if your the girl of my dreams,
and I have to live the rest of my life knowing I went to bathroom and lost her.
I can probably hold it for sec. Tell me about your self, you arnt one of thoose nice girls who wanted to ride a pony as kid?"

Or something like it.

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

lol fun opener.

but when someone asks you where the bathroom is it's often seen as a reject.

I love that. How do you go for the close once she is obviously caught off by it?

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Energy_, that follow-up sounds good and playful! Will try it again.

Spot on Lodewijkp! Although she did laugh, I could really see the disappointment in her eyes when I asked for the bathroom. Damn, I almost feel sorry for ejecting now. Nevertheless, I learned my lesson.

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Don't let no one get you down. Keep moving on higher ground.
Keep flying until, you are the king of the hill.
No force of a nature can break, your will to self-motivate.
She says this face that you see, is destined for history.

This whole thing is suppose to be a funny, entertaining bit.

The whole "where's the bathroom?"-thing is just to get things back to earth.
I think it would be very weird to keep going in the same manner.
There would be no conversation, only a monologe from you about what you could have asked her/talked about.


I agree on this... but.
You need to see it as the punch-line.
Without it you're just a weird Don Juan wannebe going around saying shit.
Its creepy and needy.

I've thought about another "punch-line".
Me:There is only one thing I wanne ask you. Do you know what time it is?
Cause I gotta go home and watch the re-run of Extreme Homemakeover.
Her: Okey.. haha..
Me: Dont you cry too? You know.. right at the end when blind lactoseintollerante family with a one legged dog see their new home for the first time?

Then a transition.
That wouldn't be so much of a rejection.

Let me know what you think of it!!

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered