Hi guys,

It's me again and I had a question...How do you befriend girls and make them realy like you?

I think this will be very different for me because I have gained the reputation of a "lame player" throughout HS. Because I always was hitting
on the girls -like : "Hi wazzup chickies looking very tight today ahhh- (yeah ealy playa type) and they always were blowing me off and it made me very low-value to ther other girls.Now i have discovered the community and now a bit more but I'm still at the same level.

I have this friend who is totally the opposite of me, He's kinda a badass , he smokes get's a lot of detention and the chicks realy realy like him !!
he's characteristics are: -very strong boundaries he amoggs the shit out of
people
-Has alot of socialproof
-If someone does soemthing he doesn't like he get's
very catchy.
-uses alot of kino on chicks even when the don't
want it

Than I have this other friends, he's got amazing skill with people, I think he read "the game" , he probabaly knows about the community because he has these little tactics like yesterday when he locked himself in and than screamed my name and then I join and make him look even better cuz he looked like he was the alpha male and I jst stood there like a dumb chode.
When it comes to chicks he uses different game: -he teases ALOT!
-when the chicks see him
they run to him and are
all over him, but he very
cold on them, and is like:
yeah whatever...
-has these tactics for
befriending guys

Then you have me.. lol. I'm the chode who's learning game and accualy just wnat's to improve his social skills, because their ZERO!!
I have tried a lot of things, but I just can't seem to get it !
I'm like the playa type (who doesn't get the chicks) I try to hit on the chicks but come off as wanting soemthing from them->low value.
I can't hold an conversation with a girl for 2 minutes , I seek rapport , I think it's kinda low-value. Myabe I should try instead of breaking rapport would it make me more High-value-> so will get more attention from teh chicks ? I don't know accualy , what do you guys think?



So ya my question was if somebody could give me some tips or recommend me an ebook or something on , befriending girls , and I don't mean making them fall in love with me but just make them realy like me like a friend !!



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First of all, if I were you, when you spend time with these guys, try and pick up qualities they have that work for you. Like if your not a huge jock, dont act like one, but maybe you start kino-ing a lot or you take up more space around you. And the other kid, it sounds like he is very charismatic. What makes him that way, is he able to joke about himself? Does he have a lot of energy when hes around girls? Does he tickle them sometimes as a flirty thing? Maybe those are things you can learn from him.
As far as getting a girl to be your friend, infinately helpfull. Do it. And the first step is to stop cat-calling! That never worked. It never will work. What I would do is pick out a girl, either one in a class you have or one in a group of friends. Be very charismatic and loud and funny (learn cocky-funny!!!!) to the class or group, but immediately turn to the girl and have a quite and intelligent conversation about her. Point out a book she might be reading, or maybe she is wearing some nice shoes. Pick something out and have a bonding convo with her. And then let the friendship build from there.

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