So today was the 1st day for my college for classes. I made a goal for the day to try and sit next to a girl in each class and to at the very least say hi. I failed in all 4 classes. In 2 of the classes, I was late and had to take the first random seat but I failed in the other 2 classes. I just couldn't find the words to open any of these girls sitting next to me. I also failed at trying to talk to any of these girls after class. I just have it stuck in my head that coming up to them after class seems weird and creepy. What can I do in the next classes to try and make these situations better?

Edit: There's also a spanish class I'm in. IN today's class, we had to do this exercise where we go around the room and introduce ourselves to people in the class by speaking only Spanish. So naturally, I went to the cute girl sitting across the room. I noticed she has a very heavy Spanish accent and she was helping me out along the way. It was a very brief interaction but I'd like the chance to get to build on it. What should I do? What should I say? Help me I'm clueless lol.

Hey man, just chill. I think u are overthinking about this a lot. you need to chill. I am sure u are worried how the girls might reply. But at some point, u gotta stop worrying and just say hi and have normal conversations. No pick up stuff, just friendly conversation.The sooner you do it, the better it will be for u in the coming days.

oh and spanish class, just walk around calling everyone senorita and u can pretend u are zorro


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I'm sure I am. It's just everything I read says u need to be funny and interesting all the time and I feel like most of the time the best I've got is, "Hey what's your name?" This would especially be creepy after class when a general stranger (even if he is in your class) comes up to you (you being the girl) and just saying, "Hey what's your name?" Otherwise, wouldn't every guy being doing it?

In my experience...

It's good to get to talk to the women in your class before it even begins. If you get there early enough, before the professor shows up, most people are probably engaging in some sort of conversation outside the door or already sitting in the classroom talking. This is a perfect time to talk to a girl next to you. You and her arent going anywhere and youre sitting next to each other. You might as well talk to her cause the only way you make things awkward with a girl is by making it awkward yourself. And not talking to somebody who is sitting directly next to you is kinda awkward in itself. Just talk about shit like, soooo whats your major, why you takin this class, where do u live at on campus, bla bla bla. Start off with the little things. Theres so many questions u can ask her about having to do w college you could have convo for days before u start using real game on her. Butter her up a bit, and see if she seems interested. She'll let you know through IOI's and whatnot.

About the Spanish chick? Ask her if she wants to help you out a bit in Spanish since she probably speaks it waaay better than you. On your first quiz or test or something, maybe suggest yall could meet in the library beforehand? I mean, its def worth a shot. And anything where theres a group project or you gotta work with partners, try to do them with her involved. See where it leads.

Hope this helps you out a bit.

Yeah this was pretty good. What would u use as a 1st line to the girl sitting next to me? Would u just turn to her and say, "Hi whats ur name," or do u go w/ something else?

And for the ones who are in my classes but I don't sit next to them, what do u do about those? Seems like it's very hard to talk to them without immediately showing interest just by doing it. Maybe I'm wrong though.