So, heres my dilema
Today was the first day back at class after summer, and there was an hb7 girl in my class that ive known from grade 6 but i havent really payed any attention to her.

so i asked her to sit at the table i was at with my friends, she didnt want to at first so i kind of played if off and then she came and sat beside me.

throughout the day, i was trying to build attraction with the hook reel and release thing i saw from a video. When i did she seemed to play it off when this kid at my table saw it as an opener to start his own conversation with her.

i dont no if the attraction is working or not, and thats where my dilema is.
do you think she see's me as a friend who just wanted her to sit by him or as anything else?

If its a friend, how do i move that up to more than a friend.

Well, she came back and sat next to you. That's a good sign. Build on that. Talk to her more. Maybe she's noticed you for a long time but she never felt like you would reciprocate anything and here you are. I like that u took a direct approach and asked her to sit next to you. It yielded a result, didn't it?

To me, sounds like youre on the right path.

Well when i talk to her, i want to build attraction between us not just make it feel like im her friend.

my brother suggested using kino while talking to her, but id like to hear if anybody else has any other oppinions other than kino and catch, reel and release because i dont think im there yet

If she is staying, she is playing. If she is still talking to you, she is attracted to you. That easy.

What you need to do is move on from Attraction to comfort, escalation, leading. There is more to game then attraction. Attraction by itself will fizzle out if you don't escalate.

Read this: http://alexattitude.com/?p=140 so you can learn the COMPLETE structure of game.

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Alright, thanks weneedhelp that post helped me alot and tommorow i think im going to try and escalate.

Bad luck today, that guy that was cockblocking yesterday did the same thing today.

i got her into a hand reading thing and then he starts laughing and says, wow that is soo stupid.
that made her uncomfortable and she pulled away, which he started talking to her again.

so, i need your help guys, how do i get rid of this cockblock first before i work on this girl.

Easy. say something like "Dude, you're AWESOME. I really love your smooth style, in fact, it's like linoleum flooring, it breaks bones as soon as someone steps on it..." then continue talking to her and ignore him the rest of the time. AMOG should be leaving table after that lol.

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yea you need to amog him, if he starts talking, be like hey, ill get back to you on that.

alright, i apreciate all your guy's help ill see if it works tommorow.

Field report on today

today i found out i have a class with her in first period, and that she was sitting with some weird asian kids because there was no room available at any other table.

So, during review for a test i went over and said hi to her ( no cockblock in this class)

So pretty much, i cant remember a word i said except for hi until somehow we went into the cube test.

when i finished and told her the results, she was saying things like omg thats exactly right, and she seemed pretty amazed overal.

So i left, took my quiz finished the notes for the day and then started talking to her again, but this time we got talking for a bit longer.

Me:Listen, class is going to end soon but howabout we meet up at lunch?
Her:You wouldnt want to get to know me
Me:if that was true, would i be here talking with you when i could be talking with my friends at my table?
Her:i guess, but i cant hang out today anyways but howabout you come to my friends house with me and a couple of people and we can hang out there this weekend
Me:sorry, im going to be busy all weekend.
Her:Doing what
Me:well, im going to the skatepark this weekend, and then i might be going fishing with my dad and his friend in the ocean
Her:oh my god i love fishing!
Me:no way, thats crazy what kind of fish do you catch
Her:just little ones
Me:oh, that doesnt count.

we got talking for a bit longer, and then class ended.
During the day i had a course change, so i stopped by my last class of the day ( with CB and HB) to hand in my stuff. After i handed it in to my teacher i went and she told me once again how cool that was that i was able to figure out her personallity.

I said my goodbyes and what not to my friends, then i asked her to hang out monday at lunch, she said okay.

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Thoughs on how i did, or any tips on what to do next.
I was thinking on leaving the school with her to go for a walk or something, so my friends wouldnt come by and ruin anything.

any tips would help this rAFC