I'm going to put up some pictures of how I normally dress and my hairstyle, I'm open to suggestion. Hopefully some of the bigger PUAs will give some feedback.





Those are somewhat older.



I didn't take a picture of what I wore last night to the karaoke bar, but one of the bartenders I've been talking to said I looked sharp and we ended that with a hug before I left she seems to be interested. The shirt was similar to that shirt except greenish and I had the sleeves rolled up.

I'm not a fan of tucking in, I feel that while I look good in whatever I wear, I don't look right with it tucked in. I've always gotten compliments on my hair, although I am considering getting the tips dyed or possibly some streaks going on. I'm probably going to have a necklace made soon with stones, it'll be an eye catcher. a big quartz crystal is the plan for the center.

I don't wear watches (that's what we have phones for) I wear belts, just not with a huge buckle. I bought new jeans recently that fit a ton better than my old ones haha.

I consider myself professionally casual as that happens to be my vision of myself and my job description.

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You came here for an honest opinion, and this is mine:

You look like a nice guy, you have a friendly appearance from what i can see from the small pictures.
I dont like the hair though, its too long/not a really cool hairdo (to me). To me its just long enough to make it look like you're not well groomed/dont care too much for your looks.

just my 2 cents!

My stylist would disagree lol. I get lots of compliments on my hair. Although, currently, I'm letting it get thicker, It's a little thin at the moment, after that I'll def get it trimmed. I'm still considering some more color to accentuate my hair some more. It's a big seller for me and women have always loved to run their fingers through it.

What do you think about the clothing selection? I could always lay out some wardrobe and take pictures and post em. I'm not sure whether the "nice guy" comment was a neg or not haha. Nice guys finish last kinda thing. I'm a producer/engineer so I tend to look a bit flashy.

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Here are some new pictures I took not too long ago (like 20 minutes)

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I had long hair for 6 years i kept it clean around the hairline and ur right chiks like to play with it. I just cut it into a fohawk. I run a business so when i deal with clients i comb it down and when im at the clubs i spike it into a 3inch mohawk.
my numbers doubled with the chiks. i know its hard to make that change but its so worth it!

Your clothes are too loose. get tighter apparrel. it takes gettin used to but chiks dig it.
get express or armani exchange tshirts...great for peacocking

hugs are lame. when ever u say goodbye to a girl u just met grab her hand gently and give her a meaningless kiss on her cheek .

not 2 criticize but to help out.

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The pants I have now are as tight as they're getting. I have to be comfortable and these borderline uncomfortable. If my balls are being destroyed I won't wear em. That's just me.

Shirts, yeah, i probably do need to take em back and get a size smaller, almost did it, but wasn't sure if stuff would shrink or not. I like my shoes, but I almost feel as if they're a bit too bulky.

My hair used to be longer than mystery's haha.

We hadn't just met, we met the night before lol.

speaking of peacocking, i'm trying to find a belt buckle at the moment that can attract some attention. The necklace I'm getting made will probably be an eye opener too.

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buy 1 shirt the size u would like and see how it shrinks.

get tshirts with foil (express)/ryne stones (ed hardy)

shoes pumas would be perfect to eliminate bulkyness. nice pumas in the $70 -$120 range (no laces are the best)

belt buckle is a good idea but no cowboy style..go for flashy.

and dude loose the hair TRUST ME and chillberg!

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^ I honestly dont get what people have against guys wearing their hair long. I thought we were in 2009, not 1959.

I'll see what I can do about the sh00z. I'm tight...VERY tight on cash. Until I land this lead for my internship I don't have much to spare, I'll be making about 600 dollars off it. 10% of a 6k show = yay.

I'm going to my stylist on tuesday, and we've already discussed what I'm going for. I'm going to put some streaks or tips in and keep most of the length, but have something that sticks out more. She knows what she's doing with me . I really srsly, won't let anyone but her do my hair.

I found a bad ass belt buckle I want, but it's 250 bucks. Damn it. I think I'll get a dimmu borgir belt buckle. Only thing that suits my personality haha.

http://www.rockabilia.com/product.php?p ... 63&page=25

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Your hair is fine. I'm sure you keep it tidy/ go for the cool/ messy style when you go out, so that not a problem. You have a good upper body, big shoulders. Like me actually. My main concern is the bagginess of your clothes. You need fitted shirts. that hug your sides but have a little room for your gut. So to sum up. Whenever you go to buy something from now on, try the size you want, and the size smaller and if the smaller one fits. get it.

I've done that countless times, yet I ALWAYS get the larger one haha. I'm going to attempt to take the shirts back and get a smaller size, I buy larges, I used to wear XL, but after I quit working out and lost mass, I went to L, now I apparently need M.

I'm just really big on comfort and always have been. I seriously can't do pants any smaller than I have now otherwise my balls with split in half haha. If I'm lucky, they'll shrink in the wash.

Now about the belt buckle...What would you guys suggest? I'm a musician/recording engineer/producer, I've found a microphone belt buckle which fits my personality, but it seems somewhat lame at the same time. Perhaps you guys could throw a few link selections my way?

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So I took back those shirts and got some mediums and now everything is tight enough. I got some new shoes that aren't as bulky as those and feel better on my feet. They're slip on type, not lace type.

I got my hair done, took off a couple inches all around and dyed it two different tones of red. I posted em on my myspace, so you can check out before and after pics there.

I also go my eyebrows waxed haha. I look muuuuuch better and my eyebrows feel as if they can breathe for once.

www.myspace.com/reallylameurl

I'm on my way =).

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honstly i say lose the hair. My hair was NEVER that long but it was long and i lost it and an i get so many compliment.

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I'm not losing the hair. I look good with my hair the way it is. Period. I have a personal stylist for a reason and some of the best hair you'll ever find. I get compliments on my hair and always have.

I'm not christian, but jesus had long hair and everyone LOVES him. haha.

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From the mohawk?

Do you have to organize your whole wardrobe around the mohawk if you have one?