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PostPosted: Mon Sep 07, 2009 11:30 pm 
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I spent a lot of time thinking about, what is the right way to talk to people.

And here is what I found. The way to talk to people is... there is no way.

Pretty profound ha.

You see, I used to be this highly intelectual guy, who had to intelectualize everything. I mean, I was so in my head, that sometimes I even ran over a red light.. because I couldnt see.

Thats how bad it was.

Completely off.

What I realized was, that there is no possible way, to intelectualize conversations and relationships.

No way.

You cant put them in "routines" or "pick up lines" strictly intectualize everything.

Well, after a while, I came to a solution. The solution that Im about to share with you.

It is not actually so easy to understand. Especiall if you`re a computer geek and cant keep your dick without mastrubating for 2minutes.

Look, this is the way you talk to people. You FEEL the conversation.

Yes. It is the good old INTUITION.

So what am I talking about here.

I am saying, that in order to have a normal conversation, you want to FEEL yourself, and the other person.

Now, Im not talking about some new age crazy shit. I am talking about things, that are
with us for thousands of years. And these are our insticts.

As men, we have our killer instinct. But we dont DEVELOP it.

We have instincts for every part of our life, including for COMMUNICATING with people.

When I started to use my instinct, I intuitively knew what to say, how to say it and when to say it.

I just knew.

You see, when you are talking from you, from within you, you start to be in the moment and the right words just come out of you. When you really have your shit together, you start to do magic.

For us guys, manhood is the key. Man`s feeling is grief. When we grieve, that leads us to all this other emotions. Why grief? Because as men, we want to be aware that we can die any minute. Thats why.

When you talk from YOU, your conversations level up. You feel differently. People perceive you as cool, high status, as somebody else.

It is about being honest to oneself. When you say, what you really feel like saying, that is when you reach the beginning point in your relationships. From that, you start to grow your relationships to another level.

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the more you talk to people, the easier it is 2 talk 2 ppl.

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 9:25 am 
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What this was meant was, you can talk with people and be a boy. And you can talk with people and be a man. The difference is?

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