Hi guys,

I've been out the last two days. Both days I got pretty far with a girl... but:

Day 1:
*us dancing*
HB: I have a BF...
Me: *another one bites the dust*(singing) - So... do you like this place (initiates fluff talk, to avoid talking about BF)
HB: bla bla bla
*Continues dancing*
HB: My name is Michelle, and I think you are really sweet, but I gotta go now... (this being the best translation... but I think the English version kind of sounds more rejecting, or setting me aside, than it did in my own language)
(HB leaves the dancefloor)

Day 2:
long story short:
She had not told me she had a BF. we'd been flirting... we are now sitting at a table... her leaning into me - my hand in her hair and on her back...
HB: I think you are so hot, but I have a BF, and even though I don't think we will last, I do not do cheating...
Me: Hot??, what?!... Charming, yes... hot... hmmm...
(conversation continues)
(I pull her closer, she puts her hand on my thigh - I reward her)

Yet again I thought I had avoided the BF-block... but no... she begged (yes begged) for my number, so that she could call me (I should have refused and gotten her), but then we separated - me to see what else the night had to offer... she went home...

the question: how to pass the BF-Block???

- Wolf

PS. I did kiss girl #2, when we separated

Why fuck with another mans woman?

I agree.

well tell her to brake up, if she wants u ! but then if she does u shouldn't be gaming her just for a night stand!

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Pascal.

A PUA is for life, not just for christmas

Personally, I would advise against giving her an ultimatum. Doing that will just frustrate her and it won't be good for anyone. There is nothing wrong with flirting with her - humans are flirty and curious by nature. If she does end up leaving her boyfriend and hanging out with you, then good deal for you. I wouldn't get caught up on her though because there is a chance it won't go anywhere and she'll stay with her current boyfriend.

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"Vincit Qui Se Vincit"

Well... guys... it's not, that I try to seduce another man's wife/woman... but... I did not know... until the last minute, that they had BFs...

I do not seduce another man's girl... I seduce a girl... whether she allows me to do it or not... is totally up to her...

I am in the game because I think it is fun... I would never ask a girl to break up with her BF...

But both of these girls didn't seem to bother, that they had BFs, when I started flirting... they allowed me to escalate...

It didn't need to be f-closes...

I'm asking, to improve my game... see where I can take it...

One of my friends (an AFC) always tells me: "you can't break it, if it ain't broken"

Maybe I was just frustrated, that everybody seemed to have BFs that weekend

Maybe the girls didn't see, what they did as cheating on their BF... maybe they just took it to the limit of, what they thought was okay to do with a guy, who is not their BF...

omg... not again