ok, i have to meet up with family for dinner tonight at 8, so i am going to go out now; 4:14pm my time got 3 hours, going to try more laid back cafe style places like starbucks, chipotle first, then i am going to try to hit up trader joes and walmart, got my mind ready to handle whatever now but positive thoughts, will post results in about 3 hours. i will try to remember everything that was said and not said, so hopefully i can get some critical opinions from people pn here of what i have to work on.

ok just got back, dinner got cancelled

i "opened" four "sets" but i realize my problem is that i just start talking, and after reading the ioi thread alot of these women were basically throwing themselves at me but i have no idea when they are talking to me and i get so damn nervous i don't want to risk flirting, i just start talking and then make a way to leave after 3-5 minutes. i don't think i am incredibly good looking but whenevr my friends razz on me they are always saying stuff like; you handsome bastard, this goodlooking motherf****r. i just freeze up and get out of the situation.