So me and my gf have been in a relationship for 2 years now. About 6 months ago we broke up, then got back together a month later. When we first started going out we had sex everyday at least, but now it's more like once a week, and it's been like this since around the time we first split up.

All I want is to have control of the relationship again. Right now she's the one calling the shots, getting action when she feels like it. Sexual frustration has no place in our relationship, yet I'm only getting booty on sheer luck and I need some solutions.

I should be a king to her and yet she plays me for a fool. How do I have the say so when it comes to cumming in this relationship?

Mirror her. Basically however the way she tells you she is not in the mood, you say the same thing back to her when she is trying to get some.
Edit: And when she says she's not in the mood or something along the lines reverse it. Be like, Pfft, i'm not going to have sex with you, who are you kidding....

She sounds bored with the relationship bro. You need to work on raising her interest level again.

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How exactly can i make a girl who has known me inside and out for two years to be interested in me again?

Start doing stuff that you haven't done before. Take up a hobby together. Be fun, exciting, and try new stuff together.

I had a girlfriend for 2 and a half years. I ended it because I was bored.

But I had some problems at the beginning. I was revealing too much of myself. So she lost attraction. When I amplyfied my mysteriousnes, I got the attraction back.

When you whine and complain like a bitch, or when you act all tough and mean, youre really crying out loud at how bad you need your mama`s tit to suck.

Be A MAN.

Taking control of the relationship requires some work. But in like a couple of weeks youll be ok.

Heres what you can do.

SAY less than usualy. I dont mean talk less, i mean say less. Start making fun of her.. you will remove the focus of yourself and put it on her. And if she doesnt like it, say ok.. i gotta go and leave.

Be what you want to be. Dont put too much focus on her. Be the man that you want to be.

Start leading the relationship. You call her. If she calls you, dont answer righ away. Let it ring. Sometimes, dont answer.

Show that you are desirable by other women. THIS IS THE ULTIMATE way to get her more interested in you.

I dont think your girls feels privileged by dating you. I really dont. Because you were in a relationship for a while, she lost interes. She isnt on her toes anymore thinking will you find another girl.

SO make yourself a prize. Turn down sex once in a while. Start putting your boudaries in the relatioship. Put some space between you two. Dont call her as often. Infact, go through a period, where you arent calling her at all. This is going to be a little harder than you think. Resist calling her when you feel the need.

3X she calls you
1x you call her

Keep this ratio.

And one last thing. This is very powerful. Make a plan to go on a trip, that is going to be a blast, and then tell her about it.

It is very powerful to tell a woman that you are going to do something that you are going to enjoy, and she is not going to be involved. Very powerful.

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