hey guys, last night my girl was dancing with my neighbour and i became jealous and i started to dance with other girl and in a bitchy way and when i look up she was standing near us. and i came up and talked she was angry and i told her when i was drunk that i am jealous and insecure. and she is now in the morning not giving me enough response and she is angry. please help. she is angry.

Uh, why take her shit? She danced with another guy, so you can dance with other girls. Simple as that.

what does she matter anyway?

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Her point is she dint like you dancing with another girl purely because you wanted to take some kind of revenge/shot at her.

You did it because you were insecure, not because it was fun. (that pisses her off, you became a chain around her.)

Secondly i always have the rule with my gf that we dont dance with other people if the other is around. If its out of sight i dont mind=)

What is he suppose to do now, though? No point in saying things like " have rules were we dont dance with others" now is it?

Well and adult discussion with your gf regarding hte subject would probably work, but hey thats just me. You know maybe you can use the hat trick.

Ok ok ok hold on! you are both acting very imature! first of all she is just as much in the wrong as you are so its 50/50 and she has to realize that! you need to let her know you are willing to work things out but she has to be as well and that you were both in the wrong! women like to play the blame game because it is easy for them and most guys will give in if it means there will be no conflict.

You should both talk about it and set some ground rules...just be open and dont fight and let her know that it makes you upset when she dances with another guy...so there you can agree that both of you with be faithful.

how old are you mate?

i am 23 and she is 24 and she had divorced her husbend after 8 months of marriage and she was 3 yrs with him,. and i dont know what kind of girl is she but for me she loves me and wants to marry me. but again she does such things which i hate . i told her abt my rule but she broke and i went to other girls. but the thing was she was jelous because we were in a club where i was sarging and almost every girl knew me so she took this step to make me jealous i think, now she is ok she told also sorry to me. but dont know how to handle again if she break the rule again and she says that we can marry with in 6 months. i dont know what to do.

i am 23 and she is 24 and she had divorced her husbend after 8 months of marriage and she was 3 yrs with him,. and i dont know what kind of girl is she but for me she loves me and wants to marry me. but again she does such things which i hate . i told her abt my rule but she broke and i went to other girls. but the thing was she was jelous because we were in a club where i was sarging and almost every girl knew me so she took this step to make me jealous i think, now she is ok she told also sorry to me. but dont know how to handle again if she break the rule again and she says that we can marry with in 6 months. i dont know what to do.

by the way what is hat trick......

there is no hat trick, it was just a joke, sometimes people think there is a trick for everything I was just making a point that you're dealing with people no circumstance is the best and when it comes down to it you need to be able to communicate with your partner.

I think she is just testing you. I remember when my gf did the same thing to me.
Girls are ussually good at this. They are masters at making us feel guilty for the stuff they did. They expect us to "understand" why she did that and they expect us to take the fault.

My friend, you are being manipulated. Shes angry ha? Well congratulations mr. wussy, go comfort her.

She knows that by making you feel guilty, she will get away with dancing with your neighbour. Haha, shes good


No really.. if you really want to be a man, you sit her down, you say what bothers you and you look her straight in the eye. You CLEARLY define your rules and the consequences that will follow if she decides to brake those rules.

If she brakes your rules, than it is going to be time to be a MAN and LEAVE. Because, if you can not do what you say, she will lose respect in you. And when she loses respect for you, shell dump you and get another bad boy. Think about it, If she brakes your rules now, thats fine, you leave with no but just a memory and a good lesson..but what about if she brakes your rules and you have a kid.. than what?

Be carefull who youre messing with. And be a man. Dont fall for women`s tears. Its bullshit.

O yea, if you tell her that it bothers you when she dances with another guy.. thats exactly what shes going to do when you hit a problem, just to piss you off. why? because women just do that.

I really recommend to everyone to just evolve to the point, where this shit doesnt bother you. Than you are free and in controll of every situation and relationship.

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This does not sound like a healthy relationship AT ALL.

Bail out.