I was on Match myself for a while and I agree that you need to make your profile different...I read untold same old same old profiles along the lines of
'I'm into crazy action sports' yada yada yada and nearly EVERY guys says somewhere in his profile 'I have a busy life but I want someone I can stay in on the sofa with and watch a film with a glass of wine'...
You may want that, like that...and girls do, yes we know (not all the time though lol!)...but don't say the same as every other guy. Make it count amongst the loads that read like someone did a template and they all copied and tweaked it a bit.

I think net PU is an opportunity to meet some really fun/nice/attractive people if you do it right and well. The build up is exciting and you can make it clear what you want without risking anything really.

Try this message have been field tested so many times that I can confirm that works in a 40 or 50% of the times.


(Her Name), Do you know what I don't like about sending messages, that I could look like the 20 desperate guys that asks for your email everyday, but as you can note I'm not that way, so send me your email without too much thinking, I just wanna know if really it is worth getting to know you. Bye

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It demostrate value because your showing that you are not another AFC.

This message has two negs in a row so it is better if you use this in 9s an 10s.

Don't try once, the more you try you will receive more responses.

Roberto

I am new to sarging, but I have more experience with internet dating and women (on a friend level).

First, what most of those sights won't tell you is a good minority of women don't pay. When they don't pay, they can't read your email or see that you are interested. I had the same exact profile and Yahoo was bad... Match was considerably better.

Second, the quality of the women is kind of like the street. 5% hot, 30% average and 65% (yikes!). Now a hot girl on that site, gets swamped with emails - so you better have a good subject header otherwise yours isn't getting opened.

To convert this into the PUA. It's like you walk into a bar where it is mainly a sausage fest and there is one hot girl. You open her, either your lucky, she stands there for a week until she responds or worse she never paid the cover and your talking to a cardboard cut out. I'll stop here.

If you want to supplement your live activities with online activities - go ahead. But don't expect much. Make sure your subject lines are strong (as in relevant ) and keep your emails short.

Teddy K.

I'm replying to my own post... I just thought of something that may work on either a dating site or a myspace page.

You contact someone for the first time, you write a relevant opener in the subject line and then write nothing... She is going to respond or not. Starting with the more likely:

She doesn't respond. In 5-7 days, follow up and ask if she has an answer to your question (make it relevant to her profile) and drop ONE mild neg.

If she does respond, say something like: (1) I don't know what happened (2) somehow my message was deleted. (3)I'm kind of busy so I can't be as detailed (4) ask the same question as above if she didn't respond and drop ONE mild neg.

Negs: I agree that online-Negs are tricky and would be different than a live situation. My thoughts are:

Point out a pic with her friends: comment that she doesn't look lonely and desperate in that one OR that you like a fake smile as much as you like a real one.

A pic by herself in front of a landmark: Comment that you think the Eiffel Tower looks skinny in that photo OR is that pic photo shopped?

Proclaim, I know how to use spell checker for my profile.

My logic: First, if she is attracted by the subject header, she will open it. She sees it is a blank message and wonders whether the guy is crazy or there was some message error. (whether she responds or not is irrelevant) You confirm that it was a message error (and you're not crazy), keep her waiting for more and stay in control by negging.

Does anyone think this may work? I'm willing to give it a try.
Teddy K