Alright......in my social network of friends there is a guy that always comes out with my buddys and I.......and he always cockbocks me and lowers my DHV when I'm talking to women......I know the simple solution would be to knock the bitch out......but been there done that and it does not help........he just seems to say stupid stereotypical stuff about me being a Guido.......drivin a camaro.......gel my hair up......or just says stupid shit to lower my DHV.......I need to find someway to disarm him with out looking like an asshole.......cause snapping back at him......he just says look he is roidraging....or something stupid......I just need to find some fresh ideas to disarm him.......

First and foremost, if your having a problem with a guy your going sargin with...

If your friends with him then tell him what he is doing and ask him to stop in the future. And if he says he doesn't notice then tell him YOU will mention it to him. Like so..

Him: "God, it is so greasy in here"
You: "Hey man, your doing that thing we were talking about."

IF this doesn't work OR if he isn't your friend go to Plan B.

Plan B: Stop sarging with him. Cut him out. If one of your good friends always brings him along. Explain the situation to him and get it to stop. And then if you have a few Successful Sargin trip without him... maybe his buddy will "inform" him of your success and it will change his mind about what he has been doing.


If he gets pissed about it tell him that you don't bash on him while he is tryin to pick up chicks, why should he do it to you.

Outside of that. Beat him with a baseball bat and drop him in a hole in a cornfield in his undies. (lol.. couldn't resist)

EvoJ

And, if it goes too far, read Tyler Durden's post on out-AMOGing a guy. It'll destroy your friend, who'll learn a valuable lesson about rippin on people.

Or do the whole baseball bat and cornfield thing. Whatever you're into man.

Thanks for the advice..........its really hard to cut the guy out cause he always offers to drive everyone.......but I'll read Tyler Durden's post on out-AMOGing a guy......thanks

you could always fight him or atleast confront him about it... I box and hit the gym on a regular basis just as hobby but it turns out to be great intimidation.

I honestly have not been in a fight in many many years and not that i'm never in the situation . But you call the person out ask them if they have a problem w/ you, keep eye contact and hold your ground. In my experience people always have backed down and shut their mouth from that point on.

(and don't be too afraid of 'ruining' the group dynamic friendship w/ your ciricle cause of one person if he is def. stepping out of line...if your friends are any good they'll understand and even respect you more for it)

You see its funny.........cause I confronted him a number of times......and I have beatin him up twice badly........I figured he would have stopped the 2nd time....but after the 2nd time when ever I confront him he just says he is joking......he is just an AFC that has major AA and uses me to open a girl then he moves in when she is around my friends and I.......it just comes down to he will be our DD for the night cause he knows thats the only way we will allow him to hang out with us.......plus he has an SUV that will fit everyone all in.....

Thats funny...i actually knew a guy like this... The easiest solution is find a way just to cut him out of going out w/ you and your friends.

id cut him out of my circle, i have some old friends that i have had to do that to, i feel bad about it cause when it was just the guys we were all cool. but they would kill my game or bring my value down by association. if you run with dogs you get fleas, you should always try to surround yourself with friends of equal or higher value.

also my friends and i have a secret hand signal to let each other know if we are cockblocking ones game.

whats wrong with driving a camaro? in my town if you have a tuned camaro or mustang girls will leave snail trails all over your car

Either out-AMOG him or you're going to have to find someone else to drive you guys to the club (or take a taxi?)