Hi

I constantly get girls who have problems with this or that and it always gets to the point where I am the shrink and having to teach them the way of life and how to stand up for themselves and to not be shy etc.

I've read this is something I should avoid but I keep getting the "My parents are maybe throwing me out " text messages (just an example, real one tho)

Feedback please

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Sounds like you're getting into the LJBF zone, because those are some signs. If she see's you more as a friend than as a mate, it means you are not generating enough attraction. Try teasing her (or them, if more than one) and KINOO more often!

Thats what I thought at first but they keep going back to this, it's mostly done via text messaging though and they know I'm not the friend type.. anything else?

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Try to, whenever you receive one of these messages to shift the topic from her onto something fun. Remain someone that can shift her emotions from being negative to being positive. It may need a bit of calibration seeing as some situations clearly need to be talked about, and some are just a bit of a joke that girls get upset about. Another option is to invite them over instead of responding to the messages;
E.G. That sucks, Come over and we'll talk about it.

Then just shift her emotional state by either NLP or just surging (putting out fun, energetic, positive vibes). If she's chronically negative, then you got to ask yourself, is she really someone that you would want to be with. If something can get her down that much, then she'll be trouble at every hiccup of your relationship.