Hey all! I am near Style's age (31), dating history and sexual experience. My problem is that I grew up mainly around women and had no real male figure. So what does this mean:

1. I have no sense of how to sexually/romantically attract a woman and can be anxious about the interaction.
2. I'm very comfortable around women, but only when it is platonic. I am every girl's favorite brother and am referred to as "the nice guy."
3. I come on too strong when meeting a woman the first time bc I'm fighting ending up thought of as the brother.
4. I am long winded (like a woman).
5. I am creative - I tend do some once, can't follow steps and want to reivent the wheel the next time.

Now my good points:
1. I am a full believer in the lay guide and the art of seduction.
2. I believe that women say they want one thing and go for another.
3. Women say I am attractive and sporadically attractive women hit on me(maybe 1x per yr?).
3a. If I'm at a bar, I can talk to the women around me (but I have major anxieties about making bolder steps)
4. I am creative (write screenplays), work, etc.
5. I can't count the women I have kissed and I have run the bases. (But seriously, it's a good week, if I get one girl's number.)

So, Is anyone out there reading saying to themselves, "I was like this guy?" How would you recommend I turn my bad points and improve my good points? Any other advice?

Thanks.

Teddy K.

I was sorta this guy until I dated a girl who walked all over me. she was the typical gold digging korean/black girl(sorry if this sounds racist but every girl ive been with thats korean or black has been the same it seems). she literally made me park 2 houses down so her parents wouldn't see what i drove. we would goto a reteraunt and no matter what the price of the most expensive thing was or the type of food it was she would order, oftentimes not eating it.

what'd i do? well, i fed more and more money into her. spent close to $1500 on her in one month in gifts and dates, then, shockingly(not really) i got let go from my job and dumped in the same week(days apart matter of fact).


i went on a warpath of women over the course of 3 months purposely destroying their self esteem after her before i found a happy medium on life, i learned a lot in those 3 months though because the more women i got the more i picked up on their cues.