I have seen posts about this before, but I would just like to reiterate this fact again because I just made the mistake of it:

A woman I am pursuing just exploded on me because I threw a zinger at her about her boyfriend after she mentioned (for the BILLIONTH TIME) about how shitty he is.

I am calm and collected about things but she had been talking cash shit about him for so long that I guess somewhere along the line I began to as well, making little remarks when she would come to me to vent. nothing bad, but nevertheless still taking pot shots at him. NEVER DO THIS!

A girl isnt coming to you to hear about how shitty her decision has been to like such a guy, so an attack on her boyfriend/guy she likes is an attack on her. she WILL get offended. you may not understand this but she does.

needless to say she went ape shit because of one small funny remark that followed up her complaint. Just know not to join in the bashing, at LEAST. I havent read up on boyfriend destroyers because I thought I could wing it and play the better man while subconsciously destroying the boyfriend. Its highly advisable to read up on boyfriend destroyers so you are prepared to say the right thing in such a situation. remember, you arent making other man look bad by bashing him, you are just offending her.

Never let a girl 'Vent' to you about her boyfriend. If she tries change the subject fast. Tell her to go talk to her girlfriends about it because you Don't want to hear it(be assertive with it). Otherwise you'll be the equalvilent to a Gay Guy friend and her emotional tampon.

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Effort surpasses Talent, but of course I already have Talent I'm just putting Effort on Top of that

sounds like your stuck in the LJBF zone. You need to up your value...and quick...before you become just like my boy said....that emotional tampon.

yuck.