What should you do when you're with a girl who is extremely self-consious? I was getting a strip-tease from this girl who didn't wanna show me everything cuz she was insecure and whatever about her body (she was kinda thick like a black girl) and also she'd never done anything with a guy she hasn't been dating. How should you handle this?

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Comfort. And it begins inside with your attitude. Get used to the idea that you don't want her to strip off everything. Cause lust can be a bottomless pit, if you just keep going for what you think you want, you won't appreciate it when you get it. Because you didn't make the most of what you had in the first place. Sex works like that - you can dive quickly to an orgasm, but that wouldn't be as good as if you had fun with it along the way, and got teased and prolonged it.

Also - you're getting a strip tease from a girl, and not just that, one who hasn't done anything with a guy she hasn't been dating - so you're pretty lucky here - regardless of what you rate her as.

So be appreciative of what she's doing, and make the most of it. That attitude of not trying to encourage her to do more will make her more comfortable, and possibly then, she might want to go further But if you are thinking about that instead of appreciating what you've got right now in the moment, that probably won't occour! So the key is to just appreciate and make the most of what you have.

Make her feel comfortable and she will be putty in your hands and will be a lot more willing to show you more of her sexy body. If you show her you appreciate her and that you find her sexy she will continue and her low self confidence will just fade away. I know that my boyfriend thinks I'm the sexiest girl on earth and it makes me feel so comfortable around him and I am more than willing to complete sexual acts and even love dressing up in sexy outfits for him because of it.