How do you go about that? I mean it might not be the best thing to do, but lets say you can sense she isnt very happy with the guy and you have never met him. Also, if she brings him up more than once, does that usually mean she doesnt want to get involved? Thanks guys!

definitaly she wants you to know she has a boyfriend but if you want to really test it out, how strong her faithfulness is, then do this: while talking to her she might swing by at you with my boyfriend thinks this or that or hes there or this, well you stop and just smile and be like so what do you think of your future, you going to marry really young right now? how long have u been together? yea i was with a girl this long too it was real nice we had to split though because i/she moved. its alright though she can see whoever she wants, we're young and need to experience new things, if it is truly love we will find each other again in the future, times on our side. (ask her advice) what do you think? i just like having a fun life and dont believe anymore in the whole rule based hand holding thing, im about freedom and understanding with the girls im with. if we find something special in each other then it continues on its own, as long as there is always complete satisfaction in both of us. the minute there isnt, one or the other should be free to do whatever she feels right at the moment(order a drink real quick). you see there are no rules to humanity or love or sex, thats what makes life so fun. its about whatever feels right at the moment to each unique person. then be like oo i know those people over there and bring her by the hand to your friends, keep her distracted, see if she starts flirting and giving into the freedom trip.

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but lets say you can sense she isnt very happy with the guy and you have never met him.

I have said it before, and I will say it again...messing with a man's wife/girlfriend is a chicken sh*t thing to do.

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So you are saying that because there is a guy you havent even met, you shouldnt be going for a girl that you really like? Honestly, thats a tough one. I dont think you should push it, but letting it go just like that isnt the best thing to do either in my opinion. This is why i was wondering if there is anything that has worked for others in terms of figuring out where that relationship really stands.

have some integrity, DONT FUCK WITH ANOTHER MAN's WOMAN.

ridiculous



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I am saying you should not be going for a girl you really like because she is 'taken', whether you have met him or not is irrelevant.

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Moving in on somebody's girl behind their back is like punching somebody in the back of the head before a fight. Can you sneak a punch in that way yeah sure but in my book thats a bitch move.

Stay away from a taken woman.

You cross a huge line with this. Plus if you do get her, she will be yours by a very thin thread. One day she could be with you and the next day "poof" gone.

Take it from me, I learned the real hard way.

Remember the rules "Never mess with another mans woman".

And if you think her talking to you behind his back is ok to then you are wrong. She begins to compare you with him and the next thing you know all hell is breaking lose, her relationship is down the toilet she gets with you and a month later she's back with him.

(Yes it has happened to me...never again)

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That's a dog act! Doesn't the saying go "bros before hoes"? Especially if her and her boyfriend are having problems, if she does go for you, she will only be doing it for revenge against him and she probably wont be that into you. Also, who's to say she won't go back to her boyfriend?

Fair enough, but then again, most people here would tell you to ignore the b/f issue if the girl is brining it up and pretend as if she never mentioned it. On the other hand, I guess its a little different when you are not really sure if the b/f actually exists, so I will have to agree with you on this one, even though I think there are exceptions to this. Anyways, thanks.

The general rule is that you have to put yourself before anybody else including her bf. There is a thin line between the right and wrong thing to do and you have to decide where that is for you. If you're friends with this girl shes asking you for relationship advice meanwhile your goal is to game her you are #1 a bad friend #2 a jackass. That just deceitful and dishonorable. But if meet someone and state your intentions to be with her and it flows that way, then play ball. She's the one in the relationship and you shouldn't be concerned with it one way or the other. That's just my humble opinion though.