Hi Guys,
I met this girl a few weeks ago through an old friend. Since then we've spoken loads online and swapped numbers. However, she has a boyfriend of four years. I quite like this girl and we share alot in common. We went a week without speaking online and when we spoke next she said she had really missed me and thought I had forgotten about her. Also, she is going to uni in a few weeks and we've spoke about me going to visit her.

My question is am I in the friends zone ? If so, how can I make it so I'm not in the friends zone ?

This girl is soo my type and I can feel myself starting to fall for her which is odd because we've met in person once but we've spoken for hours online.

I would say your in the friends zone just bcuz shes been in such a long relationship, but theres no such thing..every girl has that naughty/dangerous side, if you can give her something she cant get in her relationship, she wouldnt think twice about getting closer with you..but my friend taught me something..if you want to get out of the "friends zone" you have to shock her and leave her something to think about. do this by using kino, for example grabbing her hand and taking her somewhere or showing something to her..than act like nothing ever happend. Shout outs to sergio x

Well first I need to tell you to be careful.

I've been on your side and I've ended up getting the "taken chick" and I have to tell you, at least for myself its always thin ice when you say you are beginning to "fall for her".

Look at the details:
Look she has been in a relationship for 4 years.
She is speaking to you and getting closer to you behind her mans back.

What she is doing is called "emotional cheating". You may be fulfilling what her man cannot emotionally right now. In other words, you are in the short end because you are the one being used.

Before moving forward, here is a word of advice my friend, look at it as a chance to get in, clear your head and get out.

If you fall for her, forget about friend zone, you'll be in wreck zone.

What do the vets on the forum think?

D

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