Hey guys, I need a quick opinion on something. I'm here with friends, so really quick... OK, I'm kidding

I'm not new to the game but i'm new to Mystery Method and I've got one question. It's about Style's game structure.

BREAK INTO THEIR WORLD
Best friend test
Make perceptive or teasing comments about them (negs are included here)
Insert challenges

It's right after opening, so it's A2. My question is about this "challenges". I don't quite get what it means. I had some ideas and I tried them out in a field. Some of them worked, some of them not. Here's basically what I've tried. Just let me know if I'm thinking in right direction...

"You know what? I visit all this clubs and I can't find a woman who's smart and can make me laugh. What happened to all this cool girls?" - it's a sort of disqualification, but it happened to me that girls were like "hey, we're fun, you should hang out with us" and so on.

"I have a feeling that you're rarely visiting clubs like this. You don't seem to be "crazy parties" sort of person but rather more serious and calm one." - implying that she's boring. When she start's proving me wrong, I challenge her and make her do something crazy. Unfortunatelly it doesn't work for me all the time but still it's not bad I think.

"You know what? I like 3 things about you guys: you have great energy, you laugh a lot... and i will not tell you the 3rd thing because you would stop doing it." - so ofcourse they want to know what's the 3rd thing and i tell them "alright, but you have to tell me a joke or story first"

"Can you accept genuine compliment" (yes) "Really? Me too. You go first" (she's telling me a compliment) "Wow, I think we should slow this down. Buy me a drink first if you want to hit on me like that" (teasing her)

"Show me how you're flirting with me" (she does something, whatever). Aww, that was it? I felt like a gay for a sec. (in a teasing way)

So all this things in some way are challenging them and make them to invest into the interaction. So, what do you think about it? Is it what Style was talking about?

BTW, sorry for my english (I'm still learning)

Some of those are challenges and some are Qualifiers. It is slightly different.

A challenge is something that makes them interested because you are difficult to put into a box that she can identify with. Like a gay guy hittin on her or a guy that can accept a compliment but just didn't accept it. Basically showing her that she is going to have to work for you... and it isn't THAT easy to figure you out.

A challenge builds YOU up in her mind.


A qualifier is something that she has to do to prove to you that she is good enough. Such as "Looks are great but common, tell me three things about you that will intrigue me." When she answers she is qualifying to you. She is proving her worth as a mate. Plain and simple.

A qualifier makes Her actively try to build HER up in Your mind.

See the difference now?

EvoJ

Yeah, I see the point. Thanks very much.