Hey yall i get called rude sometimes but i always draw a blank on something c/f to say back? Can yall think of something for me?

This does happen to be a lot too, and often cuz I <i>am</i> being rude. I say thanks and give her a compliment or bullshit a compliment for the cockyfunniness. I never had a guy tell me I'm being rude, if this happened I would think he wants to fight begause he feels I am a threat to him or just pissing him off.

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I would do some analysis on why you are being called rude in the first place. Is it something you are saying?

you need to be able to tell whether this is a shit test or not, some cases it will be and some not. i get called arrogant alot, but I know when she says it immediately after ive just made her laugh that what she really means is YOURE GOD DAM AWESOME.

i normally come back with something like 'well it must be a very special kind of arrogance if it makes you smile'.

if she aint smiling and calling you rude/arrogant...tone it down a bit and throw in more humor.

another come back for her calling you arrogant could be 'i think the word youre looking for is confident dear' (becareful this alone could come across as arrogant if not said correctly though)

yeah thanks i think im just using to much cocky and not enough funny i am pretty confident though