I agree with the post above, but:
The kiss is a two-way street. it depends on both parties involved. there's really not such a thing as a good kisser or a bad kisser (WHAT?!?! you may ask) yes well, what matter is how well you each kiss with each other. So how well your styles match each other.
Of course, that is one side of the coin, the other is how ADAPTIVE you are. If you can (in the first few milliseconds adapt/follow the others' kissing style, everything will be in sync and you each will feel that the other person is an AWESOME kisser.
I myself have rarely/NEVER kissed someone the same way - My style is an adaptive one, so learn to adapt, or else it'll get sloppy!
Stop worrying about YOUR kissing, and focus on HER kissing and try to mimic it with her, and you will both kiss much better
Cheers,
~ Fr33stylez