I'm a junior now and haven't gotten too much action in college. I really don't like the SPAM at parties. I hate loud music, and I drink very little. I just can't relate to everyone running around yelling trying to get wasted. I've been forcing myself to go to parties, but its just not working.

Problem is if you know anything about college, all the hot girls go to parties. In fact, I'd say about 90% of hot girls I've only seen at parties. Even when I meet girls outside of parties, it seems the only escalation they expect is at parties. And the reasonably hot girls that don't party are so damn boring.

Anyone got any thoughts on this? I'm halfway through my college experience and so far it hasn't been the best years of my life. Anything at all anyone has to say is appreciated.

Well first of all it doesn't sound like you're having fun at these parties you have been going to, so I would say goto a social gathering where you can have fun. I think having fun is one the biggest roles of picking up girls. When you're having fun I feel like game become more natural, for me at least.

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Well clearly I don't have fun at parties. Let me ask a specific question; do you think if I go to enough parties eventually I will grow to like them? Or were some people just not made to party?

Im 22, and a Sophomore in college. I didn't used to drink so much, and I actually consider myself an intellectual. But there is a time and place for assessing, judging, and studying. I suggest getting a crew of ridiculous assholes that do funny shit either while they are drunk or to drunk people, and learn from them. Also, do you like to dance? That helps a little, cause then you can radiate a good time while dancing. I've always had a good time at parties because people do funny shit! Take for instance. A couple of weeks ago after a party, me and my buddies (downtown) got shirtless, took all the half empty beer cans and a baseball bat, and practiced our batting! It was ridiculously fun, and the girls around enjoyed the spectacle. Lol, we used to set up on my buddies back porch with a golf green and some balls and just hit them down the street (granted this could get you arrested...it was still funner than shit!).

Care free attitudes while losing your inhibitions make you do things you will never do sober... Girls just happen to be a portion of the equation. And if you think your too smart to get down on things like this, your wrong.

Happy Sarging!

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