So, tonight I hung out with some friends from high school. They had a group of 3 girls come and join them while I was performing down the road. They told me to come and join them at the bar afterwards. I had gotten a little drunk before, so my game was a little off. But, the most interesting thing that I realized was how these guys were subjecting themselves to these girls perceptions of reality... I.E. if they thought something was weird, my friends thought something was weird. "Fuckin' weak minded pussies!" I thought. So I crack some jokes, get on the good side of these girls, and we end up going back to one of my friends apartments for some drinking games. The 3 girls (only 2 of which are worth hitting on, HB 7s), continue to run the show (I fail to DHV with the exception of my taste in music and my dancing abilities). Anywho, the night turns out that one of the HB7's has to work, in the morning (she and the other girl leave), and the remaining one is spoken for by my buddy....

Could you please tell me how in the hell to deal with this situation!? There was no ability to deliver a time constraint, no ability to control the situation with humor, no other group to DHV with, nothing. Just the people mentioned above! Perhaps I need to not hang out with friends from H/S anymore! Or perhaps I just failed in general, due to being drunk!

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Did your friend for whom the girl was spoken meet her that night? If so then he out-gamed you which means that it's not an impossible situation. I don't say that to criticise you, just to point out that at least one girl was evidently available.

I've been out the game for a long time (just returning after a near 3-year, full-on relationship) but it seems to me that you just didn't DHV enough. Run standard attraction routines on any of the girls in proximity to the group and the rest should follow based on jealousy. Then you can sit back as they try to game you.

Whenever I turn up late I always make sure I get a huge welcome from my friends and bust the people I don't know with a line like 'I didn't invite you' (cocky funny) then introduce myself. Straight away you've got social proof and non-neediness sorted and for a lot of girls that can be enough for attraction.

Your probably right about the lack of DHV. I'm still getting that down. In regards to my friend out gaming me, nah. He and another buddy had met these girls a few nights before. (I'm also wondering this, if he is obviously making her his target, isn't it my responsibility to get him there rather than trying to swoop his target?) I also am realizing a big flaw is that I was already drunk when I showed up (so drunk I don't remember any of their names).

I'm obviously still an AFC and will be spending plenty of time studying DHV's and staying away from booze.

Thanks for your help bro!

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