To make a long explanation short, I have been called immature on countless occasions. To explain my personality, I am an extremely lively person and I like to goof around a lot. However, I sometimes don't think others can justify why they call me immature, maybe I am immature in some areas, but I do the things I do because I find it fun and it's natural to me. Any inputs on this? Can someone share their inputs on what they think maturity is, and if I am immature, how I can assimilate my personality with maturity.

Some people also call me immature.

But I learnt to just don't care. Because I am who I am and I know when I have to behave mature and I can be very decent.

I also have a good answer for these people:"You know, I can be mature when I am old now I just want to live my life!"

I think it is important that you know how to be decent but also how to live your life.

OK.

So I did David deangelos seminar MAN TRANSFORMATION wich I recommedn you get if you really want to change your life.

He went into depth into what is maturity and what is immaturity.

Im going to try to brake it down for you.

Immaturity is DEPENDENCE.
Maturity is INDEPENDENCE.

And not only financial independence. It means dependence on anything. On your need to cry to your mommy when things arent working right, our dependence on I gotta have my psychology, beliefs, frame right before I approach a woman. Crying like a bitch when things are bad, not taking responibility for your actions and the situations you we are in.


So how can you become mature? Take full responosbility for your life, your sex life, your enjoyment, your income, your relationships, your situation, your education. Stop looking yourself as a victim in any area. ACCEPT yourself and everybody else 100%. If something isnt the way you want it to be, look in yourself for answers and for blame. Say I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS.
Realize, that you are the only one who cares about you. ONLY ONE.

Realize, that you live in a jungle, where you are a pray and a predator. Somebody wants to kill you and eat you.

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Nice post black fantom, those are really good points. I have to agree, I was not doing that to fullest extent. The idea had been presented before, but I never "got it." Your post has made it much more clearer, appreciate it.