OK, I aren't the most confident of guys, and have only just found this stuff, but understand that along with the things I read and study, there has to be natural 'game', and I need confidence.

My main problem at the moment...the girl at a pizza take away store. She has this 'hard-to-get' look about her, which I really like. I have been in about 4 times and only ever asked her for a margherita pizza! Not good!!

Is there anything good I could use just to get me off the mark with this girl. I am just struggling to think of anything that would get a girl talking in such a place (it is fairly busy, pervy guys work there, other girls working behind the counter).

I know it is a bit of a poor question of advice, but this girl is my main aim at the moment. I need not fail!!

Thanks in advance.

Hi Leedslad,

best advice I can give you right now: "let go of the outcome". You might game this girl, but its usually almost impossible to get a close out of this when you're an inexperienced PUA.

I'do this though. If you visit there regularly.

Make sure you are a special custumer. Show that you're funny and playful, but make sure you do it with confidence:

HBpizzagirl: Hi wat can I get you?
LeedsPUA: hmm, idunno. Do you think a salamibreath will make me sexy?
HBpizzagirl: LOL haha, what? no.
LeesPUA: I'll take my chances with you, one Salami please.
HBpizzagirl: haha you crack me up.

No this might seem useless, but see it this way. She has her hands in the dough and tomatosauce all day. You might just be that little hightlight that evening. Only because you made her laugh.

If you do this more often, you might see you are building rapport... and you could ask for her number later. But also look at it this way: if you become that special playful customer, youre in a 1-0 lead when you meet her in the street and want to run some game on her.

good luck

Bucc

Thanks Buccaneer.

I figured just the 'random comments' would work best. As long as she remembers me is the important thing!

Will make an update in the time to come.

Other advice would be appreciated if anyone as any to add

hi leeds lad how did it go ?

pedro

I second the humor part of Buccaneer's post. However, you said she's putting up a front?

I like to ease off topic with hired guns. What I mean is, if you walk up and she's direct about her job and gets strait down to business with, "Welcome, to _____ what can I get for you." Stop, smile, and ask her, "How's it going?" This usually works because service industry people are used to being treated like tools most of the day and they are glad someone is actually taking the time to ask them how their day has been. Try to continue conversation and identify with what she says about work or whatever, (not in a toolish way, but in a "I feel yah" sorta way.) Let her take your order and while shes counting change or waiting for your receipt to print, ask her what shes doing with her evening. Wait until she knows you, but eventually this kind of behavior leaves an opening for you to invite her to a party or an event, which also can get you her number. (DON'T SPEND MONEY ON AN EVENT EXPECTING HER TO ACCEPT AN INVITE!!! I KNOW GIRLS WHO HAVE USED GUYS TO GET INTO FREE CONCERTS, MOVIES, SHOWS, ETC...)

Good luck to you bro!

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or use TD's jamba juice thing haha

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If you're a regular, you're at a distinct advantage. You go there for pizza, not for her. You know her name (assuming she wears a name tag)

You: "I know your name but you don't mind. I'm <your name>"
Her: "Oh, hi."

Ask her about her day, build the rapport. Just don't leave it too long to escalate because people in jobs are transient... she might not be there one day.

I'd qualify the advice with: don't end up going to the pizza store specifically to see her. Girls can sense that sort of thing. You go there for pizza and it's just a bonus she's there too. Also, try to go when it's quiet if you can. When it's busy she will not be able to chat.